Even though you two have been close for 5 months, talking, laughing, going out and actually enjoying each other.
2006-10-02 09:18:49 · 9 answers · asked by Diva E 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
do it now me and my fianceee had one date and had sex the next night cause of the chemistry and still engaged today its been 15 months..we had no fights so far and i am raisng her child and its great..so go for it..u may have that same chemistry that we have im 30 shes 28 and its the best..we cant keep our hands off each other...shes even gottne kinky with me so go for is have sex already...
2006-10-02 09:21:45 · answer #1 · answered by fancz_eyez1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't really put a time-limit on when to have sex. You have to go with how you feel. Can you trust the person? Do you believe they want something MORE THAN SEX (your friendship, love, commitment, etc.)? Are you feeling pressured to have sex? You have to think about those things, but you also have to look past that and search deep inside of the person for what they really want. If you can't "see" it, ask - "What do you want from me?" or "How far do you think this relationship will go?" or "What can I do to please you." (Most people won't say "sex". But if the person does, at least you know to move on if you want something else.)
Don't think about the time limit - look for honesty and character. Try to find out what the person really wants. The sex thing may eventually come if you two "vibe" well. And you won't wonder if it's the right time or the right thing to do. You'll feel when it's the right time to move toward a more intimate relationship.
But if you have never had sex, think about this thing hard. Sure, you want to give yourself to this person to show you care or love him, but think about what else COULD HAPPEN too! And what you DON'T WANT TO HAPPEN... So, be careful and be SAFE.
Really you should talk it over with an older friend or family member that you could trust BEFORE you did anything - just to get a better perspective and some genuine advice from someone who knows you and cares about you. That's what I would do if I were you.
Brother DzL (AsP)
"The Player's Lifestyle - for Aspiring Divas and Playas"
2006-10-02 16:28:29 · answer #2 · answered by mo2dajizzo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That all depends on your age, maturity level, and comfort with sex. Its entirely personal, if you are ready, you are ready and its as simple as that, no one else can tell you its right or wrong - just be sure to use protection, and don't let him talk you into it if you are not ready.
Now if you are a virgin I'll give you a couple warnings:
a) your first time wont be 'perfect and magical' it never is, especially if its his first too. It will be awkward and painful, and you'll be glad when its over, but it gets better!!!
b) Don't let all the stigma around sex intimidate you. Its a very natural and pleasurable thing, which is older than mankind itself.
2006-10-02 16:25:10 · answer #3 · answered by Ray B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Until you're ready and mature enough for the consequences of sex (not to imply that you're not). When you're ready to deal with possible STD's, pregnancy, etc. Even though you may use protection and take precautions, no form of contraception is 100% accurate except for abstinence.
2006-10-02 16:22:11 · answer #4 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think 5 months is enough, If you all enjoy one another and you both are physically attracted to eachother then go for it.
2006-10-02 16:24:38 · answer #5 · answered by redbone_lds 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until your married.
2006-10-02 16:20:56 · answer #6 · answered by mountaingirl88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait until u are ready
2006-10-02 16:21:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will know when it is the right time....
2006-10-02 16:45:40 · answer #8 · answered by LES 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
five minutes tops....
2006-10-02 16:21:00 · answer #9 · answered by toxic_citron 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋