all i can say is im sick of hearing ur feminine whines while u treat men just as unashamedly bad!! get a grip! stop moaning! and treat men the way u would want to be treated urselves!
2006-10-02 09:14:10 · 35 answers · asked by adriboff 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no i havnt been dumped recently, i just read about girls stringing multiple guys along but u also moan about men!!
2006-10-02 09:22:43 · update #1
CIABOO SUCK ME!!
2006-10-02 09:26:40 · update #2
YOU are my new hero!
Another person that sees this!
I just broke up (few months ago) with some hell-pig that felt the need to pi$$ and moan about every damn thing that walked, crawled, moved or breathed. She was the most sour, dark-hearted human being I've ever had the misfortune to meet in my whole life. I spent way too long with that dirtbag and she got worse as time went on.
I know how to be polite and considerate to people. I know how to have a healthy relationship. I'm not stupid, and I am very empathetic. I have a decent IQ, but I also have a high EQ (ok ladies do you know what that means?!) I'm not selfish and I express my feelings as good as or better than most of you can. I'm good in bed, and can last for hours if necessary, and am not lazy, have a great job, but I don't let people walk all over me like I'm a friggin' doormat either....not even a woman. So it's not ME that was the problem. It was her and her baggage and her issues. No, I'm not perfect, but this kind of stuff is beyond all the normal relationship crap. This was The Great Santini kind of stuff man.
She complained constantly, and was always angry, or hostile about something. *Nothing* was her fault, she was *always* right and when she was decent to be around she could make the transformation from good to bad at the drop of a hat like she was some basterdized, synthetic nuclear-powered version of Jim Carey when he changed into The Mask.
I friggin REFUSE to put up with that garbage for even one second again. If I ever run into another female with that kind of holier_than_thou_my_crap_don't stink and_I'm_always_right bullShi+ attitude again. I will dump her faster than an electron can decay to the ground state!
Never again......never freakin' again man.
I am so GLAD to be rid of that volcanic nightmare. She was a pure misery and she brought nothing but conflict and problems to my life, except for her two wonderful kids that I adore with all my heart.
I thought about sending her a dead, rotted carp (I would have paid extra for maggots) and a dozen black roses, but even that was too much effort for that $hi+-ball.
Satan will move out when she gets there.
bubbleo1954...you my dear, are a GEM! (sincerely)
2006-10-02 09:30:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-08 07:30:43 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NICE 1 Jarvy, youve done it again!!! LOL
Scratch that itch!! x
No but you have a valid point, people should quit moaning and get out if they dont like the way theyr being treated!! Women are so just as bad as men. Alls fair in war and war!!
2006-10-02 22:12:12 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem lies in the fact that for the last 50 years women have been taught that they should be treated as special , but no-one has told them they have to treat men as special to , so what you have is a load of women who feel that no matter what they do they must be treated well , coz they have fought for the right to be treated equal , and loads of men who are sick of being told to treat women with respect and as equals , but not to expect to be treated that way themselves , hence we now have the problem of nobody really knowing how to treat anybody and everybody getting it wrong .
My apologies to anyone who is getting it right
2006-10-03 07:31:50 · answer #4 · answered by saint 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OF ALL MY FRIENDS, men are the ones that do not go to therapies, do not think they can evolve, do not think they can improve by understanding the relationships, and women have to think in education for the kids, solutions for emotional distress, and then fake that its the man decision, you know what, one male friend just had a Freudian slip the other day, and said "mom" to her wife, so, you guys are looking for a mother in your girlfriend, hating her for that, and thinking you can have fun with the girls, this is the most co mun confusion in men.
That's why guys cant stop looking at other girls, you think solution is to change the girl, and not to think at the relationship as a job , a playground to grow up.
This female friends have to be in charge of everything, have to have a job, and look gorgeous because if not, they are going to be dumped, this days women do everything, and men refuse to grow up, they resent their lost of power
2006-10-02 09:26:30 · answer #5 · answered by monis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't treat men badly don't lump all us women in one big hoe bag! I don't think that all men are arrogant wankers, just the ones I seem to meet! My dad is excellent, and so are my male friends. But why is it that any guy that I fancy has to turn out to be an idiot!?
I suppose the reason for this is that women are more sensitive than men and emotional. So its worse when we get treated badly. Oh and we talk more.
I don't think men are worse than women.
2006-10-02 10:01:56 · answer #6 · answered by As You Like It 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea I do agree it should go both ways - we should always try and treat each other with respect. but lots of women are treated badly by men and then proceed to do likewise - this doesn't help them or the men, but I can understand it, even though I personally wouldn't do it!
so you stop moaning and fine a good woman and I wish you both much happiness!
2006-10-02 09:19:21 · answer #7 · answered by snowymountains123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jarvy!! Did you just get dumped or what??
There are different catagories for both men and women.
NOT ALL of us women treat men like crap. NOT ALL men treat the ladies badly.
If you have just been in a situation where u were being accused of treating a lady badly, hopefully you've learned something from it for the next time. :-)
2006-10-02 09:19:08 · answer #8 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i do agree with you. there are women who complain that men treat them bad, but then they act like they are princesses who own the world and treat the guy like crap. they are usually the selfish ones who do not care about what other people feel. Some men are like that too. You can never tell who you're going to meet, but you can always choose the ones you would like to know better. It takes time but you'll find someone to be your match.
2006-10-02 09:20:43 · answer #9 · answered by Leela 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jarvy jarvy jarvy!!!! Whilst you have a good point in the sense that many women DO carry on this way - I think its just a form of rebellion to the amount of crap we've taken from you men!!!
Not all of us are that way though!!! Chill - you're on a serious downer against women at the mo!!!
2006-10-02 21:05:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋