This girl I like doesn't seem very interested in me rinnow, but is it possible that I get a chance later?
nowadays i can't get this girl out of my head. I'm a college freshman, and I have known her for only about two weeks, but I feel that she is the kind of girl i like. She was very nice to me at first, but I get a feeling that she's getting cold toward me. Perhaps she is not so interested in me right now, but do some girls eventually feel attracted to guys whom they initially found not so attractive? As of now, I am trying to fully concentrate on my work, even though it will be quite hard because she's such a distraction, because I don't wanna look desperate. I know there are many other girls out there, but I don't wanna give up yet. Once I set a goal, I always try my best to accomplish it. If I patiently wait and treat her politely, will I be able to get her attention? I am not that humorous, but I know I am a sincere guy.
2006-10-02 08:38:58 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Listen dude, a girl isnt going to be cold towards you if she likes you deep down inside. She may be quiet or shy but being cold means find someone else. However, she could be playing hard to get and lot of the time, women are mean to a guy initially just to see if he'll wuss out and run scared. It's their way of weeding out the softies from the real man they want. Here's my advice.......show some resistance to her actions towards you and call her on her game. Tell her that game may work on wuss's but not on you, so quit the games and let's go out at a specific time and date.(you come up with the time and date ahead of time). You MUST be interested in talking to others too my friend. Hopefully she'll see you talking to another girl....that'll tell you how she really feels. Lemme know if ya need more....
2006-10-02 09:28:11 · answer #1 · answered by bayougigolo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I heard about a study where a group of guys were asked to pick the most beautiful girl from ten pictures. There were only nine girls, the tenth picture was a mix of the other combined, and was chosen most often. The point to the study is that men typically go for girls that have average qualities. Also, its a basic human tendency to hang with people with similar tastes.
2016-03-27 02:20:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sounds like this girl is giving u the run around, but it seems u are liking this girl to much. I think u should say hi to her at first and see if that works. if it does Go for it. IF she says not hi back she is not the one. Sorry guy. I know u like her but some how u have to break the ice.
She will not so u have to do it. concentrate on your schooling it is important . Later on it will help u alote trust me on this.
2006-10-02 08:47:59 · answer #3 · answered by forgetme_40 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay focused and it is within the possibilities of the world that she might eventually get interested but i usually know immediatly when i like or dislike. It is within moments that you share this growing enthousiasm for one another, not by trying to make someone interested. Yet dont lose faith for you shall find someone for you, theres about 2500 people in your state alone that you could have affinities and be soul mates. You should keep your mind focused on friends, school and work. Good luck!
Bises,
Deja
2006-10-02 08:46:03 · answer #4 · answered by deja_vue4 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm. . Well lets see. Honestly its been 2 weeks? and c'mon you dont really "know her" well enough. . so tecnically your just liking the first thing you see about her. Anyway, Wanting her to like you isnt a every day thing that just happens or something you demand because you feel a way about someone. Talk to her more, balance out your college education and her. You really should focus on talking to her more? or asking her to go out somewhere? Movies?bar?Think about what you want to do to make you both communicate more and make her feel like you both have a connection.
2006-10-02 08:47:50 · answer #5 · answered by till_deathdowepart 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes her feelings could change. Just give it time. Flirt & show her you are still interested in her. Continue being friends with her. & sooner or later things will change. Seriously girls love guys that keep trying. But the thing is don't try too much to where it just becomes annoying. hope I helped! =)
2006-10-02 08:42:28 · answer #6 · answered by kimijean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she was being kind, having just met you for the first time. But you went into ga-ga land, and scared her off! She knows she gave you the wrong impression, and is trying not to make the same mistake twice.
It's doubtful that you will get a chance later. but who knows. women change their minds often.
2006-10-02 08:44:28 · answer #7 · answered by seeitmiway32 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey dawg, it happens all the time. make an effort to spend more time wit her and talk to her if you can. she probably has a lot on her mind. and are you kiddin? Girls always fall for guys that they shun in the start. read shakespere's much ado about nothing.
2006-10-02 08:42:13 · answer #8 · answered by NY Lady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget the girl. Talk to her friends and only have short small talk with her. Find some girl to get busy with while you wait on her to come around and if she doesn't then move on.
2006-10-02 08:45:15 · answer #9 · answered by J D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is getting cool because you are sending her mixed messages by nit asking her out?
2006-10-02 08:41:36 · answer #10 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋