My boyfriend says our lives are no longer exciting. I agree and want to know how to get things hot again. Do you think that roller skating naked on the parkway would be a good start? Getting busy in the ball pit at our local McDonalds? Allowing him to have his way with me in the frozen food section of walmart?
What do you suggest/ or have done to get things hot again??
2006-10-02 08:33:57 · 37 answers · asked by WonderTwit 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"Old man" is by no means a derogatory thing. I'm his old lady so he's my old man....
2006-10-02 08:46:10 · update #1
To make your guy think you're hot you have only one option.....Make HIM know you think HE'S hot.
Compliment him and stroke his ego. Let him know he's your hero. Look up to him. Be impressed by him.
This is serious! Treat him like a man above all men and he will think you are the BEST thing around. The nude skating? Wal Mart? The children's playground????? Nahhh---not unless you think a rap sheet including, :Lewd and Lascivious Behavior" is HOT.
2006-10-02 08:42:59 · answer #1 · answered by smartgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
o.k. I dont think any of those places will make him think your HOT but maybe crazy instead...
Try this i have been with my man for 5 years, and when i see things arent "hot" any more i try to anilyze the situation, once i find the possiblities i begin to make changes...
Example:
Look at your self, If the both of you got ssoo comfertable being around each other that you have stopped;
combing your hair, shaving your legs (or other privates) wearing light sexy perfume, putting on lingerie after a shower, moistureizing your skin (guys love to feel soft skin that smells nice too!) maybe sleeping naked togther? getiing you hands and toes down...
The thing usually is that over time we stop taking care of ourselves and honestly it doesnt get any prettier. The trick is, keep taking care of yourselves, if you feel sexy he will feeel your "sexy vibes" and maybe he will start doing the same after he notices that his body is falling behind. the way to a mans heart is not by his stomach but also through his eyes, the heat WILL turn up if you change in the areas that need a little polishing... also try buying sexier things such as sexy P.J.'s sexy underwear... tiny shirts or shorts in the house? also you can cook him a nice meal naked!! Desert ALWAYS follows!!
Good Luck. And have fun with it!
2006-10-02 08:56:57 · answer #2 · answered by Social 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should take him to a nice hot tub and spa where you two could relax and listen to some music and just let things flow form there.If that doesn't work dress really sexy and go out and have a few drinks just the two of you and who knows where you will be getting busy at. Remember you could never lose your hot touch, so don't give up.
2006-10-02 08:44:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think back of how much effort you put into taking care of how you looked, dressed and did your hair when you were trying to land him the first time. Do that again, act like you did when you were first interested in him as far as how you took care of yourself. Next, do not even act interested in him as far as sex goes, but let him catch you playing with your breasts or rubbing the lower parts or your anatomy up against the counter with the look of lust on your face. When he asks what in the world you are doing, just take a deep breath, sigh and tell him that you just got the urge to feel a sensation and it felt sooo good...then just go on about your business like nothing was going on. Become a mystery to him again, don't take more clothes off, put more on, dress nice, but not revealing... Seduce him without making it obvious and when he comes wanting it, just tell him that you are not convinced he really wants it and play hard to get...it will get him hard...
2006-10-02 08:42:44 · answer #4 · answered by Suthern R 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why don't you rent a room somewhere blindfold him and take him there. Then when you get to the room have it all set up for a fun day, a bubble bath a massage and just alot of fun loving moments, you may just need to reconnect. I don't know about the public display of affection, I think it could be fun, but could get you into hot water not hot sex.
2006-10-02 08:37:55 · answer #5 · answered by preshus 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Honestly your ideas are right on track......although I wouldnt do the ball pit at mickey D's.....a kid died from being in one of those things. Someone threw a saringe in there and he got poked with it and died. All the other stuff is fair game though hehe.
2006-10-02 08:46:33 · answer #6 · answered by bayougigolo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long have you been together. . . how old are you. . . no relationship is hot all the time. As for how to make it hotter, try some new experiences (and I don't just mean sexual). Try going away together. Try changing your hairstyle or dress differently once in awhile. Wear something sexy. I have heard role playing helps.
Also, don't call him your old man!
2006-10-02 08:37:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
No way...don't you have more respect for yourself than public sex??? If he feels your lives are no longer exciting, and you have tried to be sexy(in privacy) for him, and he is still not happy, go on Vacation and get wild in the room!!!
2006-10-02 08:42:55 · answer #8 · answered by sfestaci 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look into Karma Sultra. This will rejuvinate the most boring of any relationship and help both of you explore new ideas that maybe you thought of but never shared or never thought of or just need to experiment to bring the "bounce" back into the relationship.
There is more to "sex" than the act, there is more to a relationship than "sex"!
2006-10-02 08:38:07 · answer #9 · answered by navymilitarybrat76 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Get a fab hairstyle and some really sexy underware, buy some body chocolate and plenty aerosil cream and lure him into the bedroom, which will be candle lit and fresh rose petals thrown everywhere, some romantic music and his favourite food.
2006-10-02 08:37:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋