Should I have the wedding annulled or should I have the maid of honor over to eat?
2006-10-02 08:30:16 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
The wedding should be annulled and the party should begin!
She's not the one to marry, but I bet the party will be great!
2006-10-02 08:32:11 · answer #1 · answered by timc_fla 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I guess it depends how seriously you took the wedding. Doesnt sound to me that your wife took it very seriouly at all. Maybe you should decide if you want to spend the rest of your life with someone who has already cheated on you. How can you have a good relationship when its already started out with non trust issues. I dont know its your decision but, it doesnt sound to me that she took it serious at all. If you did take it serious then think about the fact that you were commited but she wasnt. You just have to decide if you want a women like that. Someone totally comminted to you or her maid of honor. Good Luck
2006-10-02 08:35:44 · answer #2 · answered by Sassy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I know you arent serious, but i would humor you for right now. If it were me and I caught my SO in the midst of engaging with another person, no matter what gender, it would be over for us. Unless you are all freaky and enjoy the open relationship thing and you dont care whatsoever that the person who has pledged themselves to you completely for the rest of you life has betrayed you.. then i say leave it alone. Once a cheat alway a cheat... and DANG- couldnt she have waited until AFTER the Honeymoon??? nasty. just nasty.
2006-10-02 08:50:35 · answer #3 · answered by glorymomof3 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Depends on your definition of eat.. but yes invite her over to eat. Unless of course she's the type to strap one on and try to ride you .. ouch ! I wouldn't want to go for that!
Seriously
Nine out of ten times one of them isn't into the three-way thing so keep an open mind and you decide what you want to do, you may have felt shock, hurt, and even got a little excited once you got over the shock and hurt part. You'd have to talk things over with your wife and tell her how you feel. If you can get passed the cheating part and get yourself in the middle - if you're into it, hell go for it.
2006-10-02 08:41:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Join In!Seriously, did she tell you she was bi when you were dating. Either, you ingnored this or she was dishonest. If she was dishonest then she is not the right one for you. If you knew about this, then you need to have fun. Sooner or later she needs a pole. You may even learn a few things to do better. She just has a high sex drive and you need to learn how to tame it.
2006-10-02 08:59:04 · answer #5 · answered by Still_21_nheart 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Obviously you did not learn enough about her before the marriage. What you do now depends on your own sexual proclivities. Maybe you could seek out the Best Man. What is sauce for the goose, is sauce for the gander.
2006-10-02 08:40:38 · answer #6 · answered by Mannie H 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow .. totaly unfair, this sounds like a threesom relationship gonna start soon ! LeT THe ParTY BeGIN !
2006-10-02 08:40:28 · answer #7 · answered by Isaac 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
she sounds like a freak, you need to decide what kind of marriage you plan on having. You are not supposed to have a three some with the woman you married
2006-10-02 08:33:14 · answer #8 · answered by confusedpatricia 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well I'm a soon to be bride and I know think would actually happen but keep dreaming!
2006-10-02 09:22:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dude - get the camera - take lots of pictures - look forward to all of the 3somes your gonna have in the future - Congratulations!!!!
2006-10-02 08:35:57 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋