I have lived with my girlfriend for 2 years. She just broke up with me and I went nuts. I tried everything to get her back from cards and flowers. She got so tired of me begging that she told me she was going to get a restraining order on me. Her parents told me to leave her alone. She wants nothing to do with me.
Things were good in our relatiomship and we were friends after she broke up with me. But I have blown the whole thing up and chased her away. I have accepted the fact that it is over.
I just want to be her friend
The question I am asking all you girls is if I leave her alone for a long time (6 months or more), Will she ever call me again? Will I ever hear from her again? Or is she all done with me forever?
2006-10-02 08:28:42 · 26 answers · asked by stephen 1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
For now, things are done. But the good news is that people chance and what they want can change too. I'd leave things alone now and if some day you see her out, maybe give her a little wave and see how she reacts. If she still sees you as that guy that wouldn't leave her alone, chances are that she'll look away and maybe even leave. If she has gotten over it by that time, then there is a good possibility that you may be able to rekindle your friendship.
2006-10-02 08:35:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say just leave her alone and try to move on with your life. I know how is feels to lose the one you love but you must realize friendship might not be the best thing for either of you. She may think if she allows you back into her life you will start trying to be more than a friend again. I say just move on and remember her as a past friend.
2006-10-02 15:33:15 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you leave her alone and show that you are secure with yourself ( and that does not mean go and get a bunch of girls) but acting responsible working hard making improvements in your life such as your job or physical being, she may take notice again, but honestly if she ran you may want to look other places, I am sure there is something she is not telling you, if you are close with one of her siblings maybe ask them what is the real reason she left if she has not already told you herself. People leave for many reasons so it is hard to say. Good Luck.
2006-10-02 15:33:56 · answer #3 · answered by whattheheck 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that you are hurt and it is difficult to start over after spending 2 years together. However, she does not want a relationship with you any longer.
You have become obsessed with getting her back. Why?
There are all sorts of reasons why you broke up. Of course you are only going to focus on the good times. She wasn't happy. For whatever reason, you and she are not meant to be together.
You have to face it.
Don't dwell on the past. You will fall in love again only if you get out of this no-win situation...
2006-10-02 15:33:20 · answer #4 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all just give her some time, you should text message her or E-mail her saying that you will always be there for her,,, then let like 4 months go by and call her just to see how is life been, or tell her that you hope that every thing is good in the other side of the phone or E-mail something clever,,,I bet you that by that time things have been cooled of by then,,,
2006-10-02 15:34:55 · answer #5 · answered by Airforcepink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you give her some time to just cool down, she will eventually make that phone call. Even when girls break up with someone for whatever reason it may be, we will still always have some sort of feelings for anyone we date. And down the road at some point we will think of that person. So just give her some time, and you should do your own thing to keep your mind off of her for a while, and im sure she will call. So good luck!!!
2006-10-02 15:37:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. She's done and you should be too if she's talking about restraining orders. Leave it alone before you find yourself in a much worse situation. Who knows? Maybe in 6 months you won't even want to talk to her anymore?!!
2006-10-02 15:34:17 · answer #7 · answered by Grá 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say if she's talking about restraining orders then she's done. You cant be friends with someone you feel this way about. It will never work. You just need to leave her alone and move on.
2006-10-02 15:31:34 · answer #8 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know her so i cant answer for her. usually girls do want to be friends but honestly a friendship after a relationship, especially a 2 year one wont work out. i know you want to but its gonna be too weird because u guys have shared so many emotions....just gonna be hard and awkward....6 months, maybe more, maybe less
just keep doing what you are doing right now and see how she reacts to it...
youll be over her in a while anyway, so you may not even want to be friends again...stay positive and i hope you feel better soon
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2006-10-02 15:33:42 · answer #9 · answered by carcaterra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really want to. Look if you keep pushing she will keep heading farther and farther away. If she wants to contact you she will but dont contact her it will just tell her she was right to leave. Look dont relive this everyday put it in the past and let it stay there. You dont really need her and in this passage I noticed that never once did you mention that you loved her. So even if you think you do think one more time because if you really did wouldnt you want people to know. Good Luck
2006-10-02 15:35:34 · answer #10 · answered by LEAH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋