I am disturbed about the responses I've read today and in the past. Especially when it comes to someone reaching out for help about suicide. That is not a joking matter and should not be taken that way. Do any of you realize that answering with answers like... You're stupid!... or Do it! ... or You don't belong here... just might push them to do it? Do you not care or hold yourselves responsible? I'm asking that all the cold hearted people refrain from answering serious questions because you're all driving me crazy!!! I feel sick for those in need and am in awe that someone would try to push them over the edge like it was a joke! I realize this isn't much of a question but I'd like to know other's views on this subject. Thanks and God bless!
2006-10-02 08:27:02 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
It is hard to tell whether people are asking in all seriousness about anything on here. When it comes to asking about suicide or talking about it, I take it very seriously. I see the answers of people being rude and NOT taking it seriously, but really, if you don't take it seriously, just don't answer the dang question!! Leave it alone. My brother took his life and I couldn't even stand to think that had been alive in this day in age, maybe he would ask a question on here to people and what if they told him to "just do it"?? I agree with people that say you shouldn't be asking strangers (on here) what you should do because you're bound to get answers just like what we mentioned. However, when you are desperate, you'll ask anyone to help you decide on whether life seems worth living. Been there.
R.I.P. Jason Allan, 4/17/1998
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2006-10-02 09:07:22 · answer #1 · answered by Rachael 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree. Those people who makes wise cracks and such about serious matters don't know what they are talking about. I guess they look at life as a joke. They fail to realize that some people do reach out for help by asking questions. What these wise crackers want is 2 points. Is 2 points worth hurting someone or pushing them over the edge?
2006-10-02 17:37:55 · answer #2 · answered by mclamb63 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you know anything about the internet community - you'd know that there are a bunch of flaming jerks - not a bunch - millions and millions.
I get your point. When faced with a serious question I give a serious answer. When asked a stupid or humorous question I reply in kind.
But you are asking for the impossible. You are asking for people to drop their jerkhood - look around at the answers - look at the questions - these are your internet brothers and sisters.
I know that a mentally troubled, or suicidal person isn't always thinking that clearly, but I'd hope that someone that has been around here for awhile wouldn't expect a lot of intelligence and respect.
Plus, the average answerer always has to ask themselves - is this real? is this guy kidding? I can't tell you how many times I've paused and not answered a question because I thought it was phony.
My two cents worth.
FP
2006-10-02 15:31:08 · answer #3 · answered by F. Perdurabo 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Sophialin, I agree with you 100%, I am a Clinical Psychiatrist an I don't care if they they say on answer, "I want to take my life". I take them at their word.
Better to care then to just make a wise remark back to them, thinking they are one big joke.
If the person or persons who made these wise a s s remarks back to the asker, and they were in my office one on one and told me that," I think I want to take my life", I have a legal and moral obligation to commit them to a mental hospital for 72 hours observation. They will not leave my office. They can go either calm or via force.
Does not matter if they say I was just joking. All I know is they said, "I am thinking of taking my life".
Always take a person at their word and not assume it is a joke.
The majority of people who are cutters or suicidal are calling out for help and want attention. Usually if they don't get it for sure sooner or later they will take their life.
Clinical Psychiatrist, France
Excuse my english
2006-10-02 15:55:08 · answer #4 · answered by MINDDOCTOR 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I completely agree. Whether people are serious or merely seeking attention, suicide is a serious subject that should be handled with care. To me, even "joking" about it, merits concern. If a person is truly happy they wouldn't even be thinking or talking about suicide. Like I always say, there is a better way than death -it's life, and God gave it to you. If a person opens up about the subject, turn their attention to the Word and show them HOPE!
2006-10-02 15:36:07 · answer #5 · answered by Angeles Watching 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree somewhat with you. But it's freaking easy to come on here and tell others how to respond to other peoples threats of suicide. Have you had a friend repeatly tell you that over and over and over again. I swear sometimes it'd be easier to grieve over their death then to constantly worry about them. Feel sick to your stomach, sitting at work, wondering if you should call the cops. Trying to have a good time, then start bawling because they send you ****** up text messages and basically SUCK THE LIFE OUT OF YOU. Crap get some freaking help people and for gods sake don't put the burden of your world on your friends..they don't deserve it!
2006-10-02 16:28:55 · answer #6 · answered by Lisa 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah, everytime I ask a question on here I get really nervous because I don't like reading negative remarks. Some people are just sensitive. I'm extremely sensitive to things like that.
I agree, people should take the suicide questions seriously, because these people feel alone. They feel they have no one to go to. They are coming here for answers. They don't need to hear the negative.
2006-10-02 15:30:02 · answer #7 · answered by Carrie! 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I reply to stupid questions with stupid responses, but when I answer a serious question, I put a serious response. I do find it odd that people post calls for help with thousands of strangers instead of family and friends. ?? I'm happy to take a moment to try to encourage them, though. Try to keep in mind, this is an entertainment website, not Oprah or Dr. Phil.
2006-10-02 15:35:27 · answer #8 · answered by babalu2 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yeah,I feel that way to ,but people shouldn't be asking those questions here,becaues most people who go on ask are teens,or people who are just trying to kill time,not people who are actually here the help others in need.I try to help as best I can,but for those kind of questions I feel I can't help them,but yes I do agree people should be more mature when answering those kind of questions,and if they can't, why don't they just stick with answering the question what came first the chicken or the egg?great question.
2006-10-02 15:36:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is one of the most serious issues we are facing in our modern, stressful life and simply, if it is not a manifestation of a psychiatric illness, it would be the result of the loss of love and guidance to take you through the very black cloud, dispare and severe sadness you are experiencing following domestic, social, or working problem. So love and support in crisis are the magic keys to break the suicide cycle and take you forward to where the sun-shine.
2006-10-02 15:57:54 · answer #10 · answered by Aussie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋