How Does it work, How is it different from boyfriend?
is it possible or smart to use f**k buddy as a decoy and work my way to form a possible relationship? if so, what are the chances?
2006-10-02 08:09:05 · 20 answers · asked by peter Y 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
when you have a f*ck buddy, you can screw them without commitment. It is different from a boyfriend because you are not really having a real relationship with this person, just using them to get some... Chances are, your f*ck buddy wont want to have a real relationship with you, because he will think you are easy. no offense...
2006-10-02 08:13:24 · answer #1 · answered by hotchickhazeleyed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A f@ck buddy is just that. Someone that you "acquire" to do nothing more then have sex with. There are no ties, no feelings, no nothing. If you plan to have a f@ck buddy and eventually see if it will work into a relationship, that is a HUGE mistake. Relationships should be built on respect and feelings, and there is no respect between two people who are just "using" each other to get passed a urge.
If for some reason it does turn into a relationship, it will be bad because of the lack of trust, respect and other factors.
Understand also, having a f@ck buddy is something you have to be able to handle, since many times it is possible to have a feeling for this person you are sharing something "special" or "intimate" with. Many times the feeling isnt reciprocated and you end up hurt because you had "feelings" for someone that you were suppost to just "using"
If you want a boyfriend or girlfriend, relax they will eventually come to you. If you are horny and need "sum" then you can go down that road, but just remember to keep yourself aware of what you are doing to yourself and your mind.
Your mind is your own worst enemy
2006-10-02 08:27:48 · answer #2 · answered by just me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO DON"T EVER SETTLE FOR LESS!!!!!! Believe me it doesn't work the only thing that happens is you end up with a broken heart and he blames you for it!!! I you guys aren't at least dating then you don't need to be talking to him like that! I tried that situation with a man a long time ago and I thought that would be all I wanted from him but then a couple months into it I started to like him and then I found out why he was single and why I was just a F*** buddy! The meaning is all you're doing is F***ing no strings and not commitment he can see other people and so can you, so that means no getting pissed when you see him with other females! It's a bad situation to be in because someone always gets hurt! Sex has still has some kind of emotion attached to it whether you want it to or not, Attraction is still a feeling, Lust is still a feeling and all these things tie into SEX, Right? Okay well just don't do it PLEASE!!!!!!!
2006-10-02 08:20:44 · answer #3 · answered by EriksSweetheart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A F*ck buddy is a friend with benefits. You don't have any committment like in a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. You can sleep with other people and when you want it you just call up your buddy and there ya go♥
2006-10-02 08:11:16 · answer #4 · answered by ♥USMCwife♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A f buddy is just that. You call him or her up tell them you need their services basically and get together. Forget the relationship with a f me buddy.
2006-10-02 08:12:34 · answer #5 · answered by deborah_012003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you start from the beginning as ummfriends then that's most likely what you'll always be because you've established that understanding that romance should be out of the equation.
I've had some girls i was using as just ummfriends until i realized that a couple of them wanted something more. If you haven't set up ground rules and are just having sex for fun then you'll want to to save yourself trouble later on.
Once you establish rules in that you must stick to them.
2006-10-02 08:13:36 · answer #6 · answered by sprydle 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All the fun, none of the bulllshitt. Don't use it as false pretenses, someone will get hurt. Just enjoy the fact that you dont have to follow some BS set of rules (like in a relationship)
2006-10-02 08:11:48 · answer #7 · answered by C P R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not good,
Because neither one is really interested in a relationship in the first place.
Keep your self-respect, don't have sex until you are in a committed relationship.
Condoms are not safe or effective against pregnancy or Disease. They do not guarantee you will not get infected.
Why put yourself thought all that worry and risk your life?
Our Grand Parents had it right.
Peace!
2006-10-02 08:14:39 · answer #8 · answered by C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The buddy system works for everything except as a prelude to a relationship.
If you think that is how you get the guy, dream on...
2006-10-02 08:11:49 · answer #9 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Em...my friend fuc.k buddy is a person to have sex with all the dame time they r not boyfriend or girlfriend no kind of ralationship no kind of feelings just raw hardcore sex
2006-10-02 08:13:54 · answer #10 · answered by Maliboo562 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋