I am 34, not a virgin. I have never been married. It has been about a year and a half of abstaining so far... To all the guys out there...If you were really into someone would you be willing to wait until marriage? To the women out there am I the only woman that would rather suffer getting non than suffer in the end cause the guy was a jerk?
2006-10-02 08:08:00 · 17 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, I wouldn't wait, the sexual chemistry is too important, if I didn't have it I wouldn't want to make a committment
2006-10-02 08:11:06 · answer #1 · answered by martin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You wouldnt buy a car w/o test driving it would you? It makes no sense to wait until marriage for various reasons. Just because two people love each other doesnt mean their sex life will automatically be good or perfect. Sometimes two people just arent meant for each other sexually and if that's the case you can kiss love goodbye. I hope for your sake that the sex is good after marriage otherwise you'll be stuck with that for the rest of your life or headed for a divorce that could have been avoided. Ask yourself this....what's worse, getting a divorce, living the rest of your life with bad sex or doing it beforehand and finding out?
2006-10-02 15:23:18 · answer #2 · answered by bayougigolo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who says having no sex is suffering? I refuse to have sex until I am married and I am not suffering in any way. It is a choice that I have made, and I will stand by my decision.
2006-10-02 15:10:52 · answer #3 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So basically you are saying you are celibate.
Well it's good to set goals for yourself and stick to them.
It's a great thing to do. If someone really wants to be with you then they will accept your decision and wait until you are married or just choose to be your friend.
I hope you find that special someone and yall live happily ever after.
Good Luck!
2006-10-02 15:11:50 · answer #4 · answered by miss_lady6980 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, because this may sound gay coming from a guy, but wont having sex with the one person that your supposed to love forever mean alot more then having sex with alot of girls who mean nothing. Thats just my perspected, its not like im afraid to do *anything* with a girl, I just have my limits.
2006-10-02 15:10:16 · answer #5 · answered by myerfreddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't see myself marrying someone if that havent had sex with me,why?,cuz going to that level means that the really want to spend there entire life with you,and not just say that to get you to believe it..
2006-10-02 15:28:58 · answer #6 · answered by Psycho-Minion(Jeff Hardy Fan) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until ur married-its the right thing to do.
2006-10-02 15:13:10 · answer #7 · answered by 2muchcoffee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know about that ... what happens if you wait until you get married and sex sucks ... then what??!!
2006-10-02 15:11:56 · answer #8 · answered by Daisie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not want to marry someone unless I was sure there was a compatability sexually. No sex before marriage? No thanks.
2006-10-02 15:27:29 · answer #9 · answered by MsDebi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't marry someone I hadn't had sex with.
FP
2006-10-02 15:09:58 · answer #10 · answered by F. Perdurabo 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋