I met this guy and his mother lives with him. I called his house and she answered. I said hello, may I speak with so-and so. When he put the phone down for a second she got on the phone and told me she didnt like me and I am rude because I didnt say God bless how are you this morning. In the background I heard him say "mom it won't happen again." I never met her before. Come to find out, he is not aloud female visitors and he cant play music in the home. He is 33. When we go to the movies, we can never go back to his place, because he says it is direspectful to his mom. So the only place we can spend quality time is at my place. Mind you we have a long distance relationship(200 miles). I see him 3 times a week. When I come to see him, sometimes I would just like to chill and watch movies. The only times we talk are when he is at work or driving in his car. Very seldom he will talk while he is at home. When he says he'll call me right back its the next day. I call him and phone is off
2006-10-02 08:06:43 · 13 answers · asked by dnice1473 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think this one is worth keeping. I just remember my parents always saying, While you live under my roof you live by my rules. It sounds like his mom's rules. If this could ever work, he needs to cut the imbilical cord and move out of her house!
2006-10-02 08:22:57 · answer #1 · answered by Casey M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THIS GUY HAS MORE THAN 3 STRIKES
STRIKE ONE: HE LIVES WITH HIS MOTHER (and his mother is not living with him.)
TWO: HE IS 33 Living with his mother (he is old enough to have a mortgage)
THREE: HIS MAMA DON'T LIKE YOU
FOUR: YOU CAN'T OVER HIS HOUSE
FIVE: IT'S A LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP, YOU COME DOWN TO SEE HIM AND YOU STILL CAN'T COME INTO HIS HOUSE.
I can go on and on...but he is not bringing nothing to the table
He is not doing anything that you don't do for yourself...
Leave this on alone and let his mama have him.....
2006-10-02 08:13:30 · answer #2 · answered by fatiegurl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl what are you still dong with him???? If I were you i would call his house and when his mom comes on the phone I'd tell her that the Bible says that "the man shall leave his house and be with the woman and they shall become one" tell her you need to be one with him. And if he has a problem with that then you know he will never leave his mom
2006-10-02 08:10:47 · answer #3 · answered by Foxxy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Norman Bates!
2006-10-02 08:11:56 · answer #4 · answered by Elkie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, don't waste your time. First of all, he's 33 and still living with his mother. You deserve to be with someone who gives as much as he takes, and this guy doesn't come across as that type of guy.
2006-10-02 08:12:11 · answer #5 · answered by Neo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
communicate over with a minimum of one yet another approximately this subject till you the two arise and agree on a end. i think of long distance relationships are completely superb as long as you men have faith one yet another and the two one in all you settle that the dating is nicely worth retaining.
2016-10-18 09:02:27 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems like you are unhappy with the situation (it seems like a very difficult one; i would be unhappy with it too)! i don't like to give relationship advice, but i will say that you know deep down what the answer is. we can only be of use to you in that it helps to hear from another person what you know is true. you deserve happiness, you probably won't find it with this guy, but you will find it somewhere.
2006-10-02 08:12:45 · answer #7 · answered by Fuzzyblue 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way. . . Sounds like Norman Bates!
2006-10-02 08:09:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is a big momma's boy he needs to grow up
2006-10-02 08:11:15 · answer #9 · answered by its_me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes not worth it. get rid of him
2006-10-02 08:15:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋