Anyone who has had to deal with cheating or signs of cheating... Any suggestions on how to find out.. I watched him check out this girl oneday while we were putt putting. More than 5 times.. He said he didnt do it untill I didnt let up and then he gave in. But I have not saw him do that since then. Should I be worried.
2006-10-02 08:02:18 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You never eally know you just have to hope for the best that your man knows what he has but until if you find out other wise you better drop his a$$ cuz there is no excuse for cheating
2006-10-02 08:06:37 · answer #1 · answered by !!yentruoc!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These are the signs I noticed after I found out my ex husband was cheating... Hind sight 20/20 of course.
New underwear - it's funny but it is true.. He went from tighty-whiteys to tight boxer shorts in many colours...
Then there was the constant going to the gym.
Also, went to the bar with out me.
Bought me a new stereo for my car right before he told me he was cheating. Sometimes they might be really nice to you out of guilt...
Ok, ALL men look at other women even if they are totally the faithful types. Just because he looks doesn't mean he will cheat. You have to go by how good is your relationship? How do you get along - do you have a good amount of fun time together so he doesn't need to go elsewhere?
You are probably really young - and when your young it is hard not to be jealous allot. Just try to relax and not read into every move he makes too much. Good luck.
2006-10-02 08:09:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not let people, especially other girls watch you and your boy friend putt putt. It only puts ideas in his head. Consult your priest. And keep in mind he is always thinking of cheating on you, but like most guys will only do it if he is sure he will not get caught, he is drunk, or she is very hot. Or any combination of the above.
2006-10-02 08:06:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually you will not know.
But if he does you will notice a change in his behavior such his as attitude. You may not want to worry so much about the issue because you will cause more problems than it's worth.
It doesn't hurt a man to look at another woman, but if he acts upon it and cheats then you have a problem.
2006-10-02 08:05:42 · answer #4 · answered by miss_lady6980 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, it's in a man's nature to look at other women. Even if they sit there and deny it to the fullest they're lying. All men do it, they can have a supermodel for a girlfriend but he's still gonna do it. Human nature. Doesnt seem like you have anything to worry about unless he starts lying to you about where he's going and what he's doing. Unless he's getting weird phone calls and acting suspicious, otherwise he's just doing what all men do. Looking...thats what god gave us eyes for...to look.
2006-10-02 08:13:35 · answer #5 · answered by bebechinadoll_01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi yes you should be very much concerned , don't you think that he should of at least respect the fact that you where there,, and still he was checking out another girl?? well i am sorry,,,, he does not respect you at all,, when he is with you ,,, much less when your not there,,you need to think about what is going on,, yes with what he is doing ,,,that is the signs of cheating .. and that is if he is not already doing it..
good luck
Leena
2006-10-02 08:17:48 · answer #6 · answered by leena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm, i have a girlfriend and i always think of cheating on her, thats just how guys work. But then i remember my girlfriend and ultimately decide that shes the best in the world
2006-10-02 08:05:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
face the facts that men are visual creatures and they are always going to look at other women. I dont care how fine my girlfriend is, I will always look at other women, but that does not mean I dont love her and will cheat on her. Look for other signs, you are being paranoid about this, and it may drive him away eventually, however, he does need to respect you, by not checking out other women in your presence.
2006-10-02 08:06:00 · answer #8 · answered by she lied 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I truly dont think that it's a big deal if it happened only once. Look for patterns and if he keeps on looking at other girls then he's thinking of cheating on you.
2006-10-02 08:09:16 · answer #9 · answered by sweetest_taters_ever 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, just tell him you don't like cheaters and you trust him and love him, ask him not to break your heart. You can't really know if he is thinking of cheating. you are becoming paranoid about it. Just let it go. Keep telling him you love him.
2006-10-02 08:07:39 · answer #10 · answered by sure_whatever_29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋