I went to college with this guy. I have always liked him for some reason. I actually long to see him. I had a bf and we were together for 6 years, have a daughter. We broke up and I finally go to "hook up" with him. This guy makes me shake in my boots literally, I like him so much. How do I tell him without making him run? I feel like i'm in love, but by myself.
2006-10-02 07:55:59 · 9 answers · asked by tasha 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's a weird situation. We have a very respectful and genuine friendship. Years before the sexual aspect. I/He will drop everything just to see each other if one of us is in town. If I had a boyfriend now, I would drop him like a hot rock for Him. When we hang out it's tense for me because I have to keep saying to myself, calm down, calm down, and I've known him for 8 yrs. I will talk sh*t to any guy if necessary, but if he told me to even be quiet I would probably cry. lol
2006-10-02 08:24:47 · update #1
Sorry to tell you but he's in it just for the SEX. I know.
2006-10-02 07:57:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't "tell" him. Read a book called
The Rules(TM): Time-Tested Secrets for Capturing the Heart of Mr. Right ... That should do the trick
2006-10-02 15:00:29 · answer #2 · answered by Alex S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a tuffy, well dont be clever, just be straight forward... does he know your Ex...? cause if he did bad idea similar situation, i was hte guy and this girl tried getting cute and basically didn't tell me she liked me genuinely and just preformed sexual favors and i was like cool, and when i didn't call she got pissy and i haven't talk to her since, but whatever dont make that mistake, get his honest answer and live with it...
2006-10-02 14:59:58 · answer #3 · answered by J from O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty always works out best! You never know if he feels the same way if you dont say anything, take a chance. Be honest with yourself, if you want him you gotta go after him!
2006-10-02 14:58:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell him. Just enjoy those feelings that you have for him.
If you tell men something like this too soon, they panic.
Just smile and remind yourself how lucky you are.
When he expresses similar feelings, then spill your guts, but not one moment before...
2006-10-02 15:00:40 · answer #5 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm hmmmmmmhmmmm SHe said Long
2006-10-02 14:57:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just tell him like it is need more advice email me at keyla_brown123@yahoo.com
2006-10-02 14:58:14 · answer #7 · answered by Ms. Complicated 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him.
2006-10-02 14:58:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him straight.
2006-10-02 14:59:38 · answer #9 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋