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Question

i just asked the question about getting dumped by my fiance, my issues were my jealousy..and insecurities.....

Answer 1

I think we all have those issues but if you are always in his face..... Do you worry about him cheating??? Has he given u reason to worry??? If not i would suggest getting consuling. ZI found that when i was at home wioth the kids and not working I had the same problem but once i began to work it got better

Answer 2

Do you think you really have these issues? If you do, work on them. It's about a self esteem, here, actually. Women tend to be insecure abotu other women due to something missing in their own self image as far as how they view themselves. They compare themselves to toher women, thinking this woman is beautiful or sexy, but every woman has just as many issues as you do-she is just as flawed. It should not be about being a better woman than this woman or that woman- it should be about being the best YOU can be for YOURSELF, dear, you understand? When you get it in your mind that you are someone special regardless of whether or not this man wants you or not, then you will know your insecurity issues are solved and therefore so are your jealousy issues concerning other women.

Answer 3

So what's the Question I just got online? Do you need help getting him back or help with getting over your insecurities and jealousy? Either way you'll have to get over the jealousy and insecurities to get him back, so lets work on that! If he's done something to make you not trust him and you forgave him then you need to let it go or get couples counseling to help you get over it! If there is one thing I hate is when someone forgives me and still brings the Sh** up later! So please don't do that! If there's something in your past that has happened that has nothing to do with him, then you need to stop blaming him for what someone else did to you! That's not something he or you can change, it's already happened so stop! You can never tell a man you love him and give yourself to him if you haven't let go of the past! Stop the insecurities obviously you have something to offer if this man wants to marry you! I mean good god woman you need to learn to love yourself before you can expect any one else to love you or expect yourself to love anyone else? Does that Cover the just of the problem or is there something more to add? Let me know!

Answer 4

I've experienced the same problem like yours. I will give him some spaces, so that he will not feel pressure and encourage him to do what he likes to do. About jealousy, i will put trusts towards him and try to get along with his buddies to understand him better. The most important thing is always tell him how do you feel to let him understand you much more better as well. Try not to always doubt about him, because this definitely will makes him feel desperate and always listens to his reasons.

Answer 5

well u were dumped by ur fiance..why did he dump u? cus he met someone else? if so..he's not hte one for you..and jelousy and insecurity is normal..everyone gets jelous..i get jelous..even tho i hate her guts i get jelous and i wonder what is wrong with me..why doesn't she want me..but..theres nothing wrong..she's just not the one for me..its normal for u to be jelous.. i mean..he was ur fiance...you'll get over it when u start living ur life and move on and find someone new..someone who deserves YOU.

Answer 6

Ya, women don't like those traits. It shows that you are not a man at all.

Answer 7

And just exactly what are you askin' us now,Hon?

Answer 8

be free from vices. o.k.

Answer 9

and then? what's the question?

Answer 10

so