Theres this guy I had a fling with... He studies abroad so I only see him when he gets back... He's with another girl now and I'm fine with it... He even asked me on advice on what he should do with her. The thing is, she is playing him with one of my friends... This friend of mine knows that she is playin both of them and seems to be fine with it. What should I do. Should I tell him? I feel guilty if I don't...
2006-10-02 07:10:42 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes you should tell him. It is your right as a friend.
2006-10-02 07:12:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although sometimes being the bearer of bad news sucks because most people "shoot the messenger", I would tell him. Although please keep in mind that he may assume that you're only telling him this because you're jealous or still have feelings for him. However, it is up to you as far as what should be told to him. Please take into consideration that he may not appreciate being told, and you might lose him as a friend. If you feel that your friendship with this person is strong enough, then by all means, let him know what is going on.
2006-10-02 07:14:25 · answer #2 · answered by ratpackluvr 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd just casually drop it assuming that he already knows that she is in another relatioship.
Since you to have a friends with benifit type of relationship you can always assume that this is the same type of situation he has with her as well....
2006-10-02 07:13:34 · answer #3 · answered by .... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, definitely tell him. Why would you want a friend to suffer more heartache? The longer it goes on, the worse his pain will be
2006-10-02 07:15:09 · answer #4 · answered by who-wants-to-know 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow that's a tough one.If you tell him you might look like you're jealous.but then if you don't he might ask you why you didn't and get mad at you. I have been in both I told him and would probably do it again.So you need to weigh you options and decide what is right for you
2006-10-02 07:16:03 · answer #5 · answered by furby_lost 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say tell him honesty is the key. the truth will come out one way of the another and he might be hurt knwoing you knew an ddid not say anything
2006-10-02 07:14:46 · answer #6 · answered by FlossyQ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you tell him
Will you expect him to come back to you.
That is the real question.
2006-10-02 07:13:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him! What if he finds out you knew all along and didn't tell him. You must tell him. Best of Luck.
2006-10-02 07:14:31 · answer #8 · answered by Stephanie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should tell him. Tell him before he gets really hurt.
2006-10-02 07:13:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
kill the both and burn the bodies it's the only way to avoid the death monkeys. So says the buddha.
2006-10-02 07:13:12 · answer #10 · answered by Adam T 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋