i met a lad round town on saturday i was with him all night talking in the club and he was buying me drinks he said that hed txt me the next day or later in the night,so he txt me that night asking me if i was still in the club and i replyed of my mates phone but sent it to the wrong number without realising,i realised the nxt day and i txt him asking if he wanted to go for a few drinks sometime and i got no reply! he seemed really interested.why is this?
2006-10-02 07:06:15 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This happens all the time though and without been big headed i arnt a bad looking girl
2006-10-02 07:12:32 · update #1
never mind try again, chin up
2006-10-02 07:08:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he wasn't interested in your txt appeal!
To be honest, a night club is a great place to go out and have fun, socialise, dance, drink, but not really a great place to meet potential partners.
I've found that in a club it's a "catlle market" mentality... girls who in other circumstances would enjoy talking to me, getting to know me etc... won't even give me the time of day (or night) in a club because of how their shallow minded friends might react.
Here's a saying for you to remember "If I keep doing the same, I'll keep getting the same".
Good luck!
2006-10-02 14:20:05 · answer #2 · answered by jezterfezter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its possible he was only interested in sex. in fact just about every man you meet in a club will only be interested in either: sex, drink or dance.
try meeting guys in places that arnt associated with groups of young people trying to cop off with each other, e.g. sporting clubs, charity work, hobby meetings. you'll get to have proper conversations with people who share your interests rather than one off's with people you barely know.
2006-10-02 14:11:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Men do this all the time they seem to think its cool to have you sitting by the phone waiting for them to call you.
Just get on with your life, forget about him if he was really interested he'll call if not no harm done eh
2006-10-02 14:14:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe he was drunk at the time and you seemed like a good idea. Maybe when he sobered up, he remembered he was married or had a girlfriend.
2006-10-02 14:09:57 · answer #5 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably just keeping you on your toes by acting disinterested! Leave it a while longer before acting!
2006-10-02 14:08:50 · answer #6 · answered by doodlenatty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol @ voilet pearl ..
Don't exaggerate .... the fact that u think u r good looking assures me that this does not happen all the time ...
might be your personality tho ;-0
maybe your friend saved his number .. and nabbed him ...
good luck
Dr BAd
realistic & brutal agony uncle
2006-10-02 14:18:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he was playing you seeing what he could get that night an wen u didnt give it he didnt want to know
2006-10-02 15:24:15 · answer #8 · answered by Nickie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey, go out and buy this book 'He's just not that into you', sounds rough i know but it explains a lot!!!! Its a great read
2006-10-02 14:33:51 · answer #9 · answered by sam d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Murphy's law... beacuse you're expecting him to. If you didn't care. he would call.
2006-10-02 15:34:42 · answer #10 · answered by Pivoine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People are mean sometimes. just forget about it.
2006-10-02 14:10:21 · answer #11 · answered by Gordon P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋