he never spoke to me
but the little things happening between him and me,says that he loves me
what the next step i could do?
he cleverly hides his interest on me
how can i change him?
2006-10-02 06:56:11 · 17 answers · asked by kalai 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he has a phone;directly talk to him asking about some news in the city or film industry;step by step say some thing...........
2006-10-02 07:07:24 · answer #1 · answered by air wind 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First what is the need to change someone you love? Never try to change anyone. You can only improve on yourself. The best way to find out about a person is to talk to them. If there is interest there it will become apparent given time.
2006-10-02 14:00:17 · answer #2 · answered by The_answer_person 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't change him. If you have to try to change a person to make yourself happy then you should try to change yourself first. NO ONE else is going to do that for you. If he hides his interest he is likely not interested. Please think about the reality of whatever situation you are in. Is it healthy? Is it safe?
Take care.
2006-10-02 13:59:10 · answer #3 · answered by Pixie Dust 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he had an interest in you, he would be asking you out. If he's "cleverly hiding" it, then it must be all in your head. Just look for someone who really *is* interested.
2006-10-02 14:00:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st off you dont change men (it never works it always just backfires!)
2nd if he has never talked to you how are you sho sure he LOVES you?
3rd if a guy says i love you then that would be different (but even then you have to question their anwser! lol)
4th and lastly if a guy dosnt talk to you then i think its safe to say you should move on.
But i guess what ever you want to do is fine too......
= )
2006-10-02 14:03:08 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ Sunshine ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't need to change anyone, if he's with you it's because you choose him, so accept the way he is,and the best thing you should do it's tell him about how you feel, be honest and sincere, after all it's the person wo you want to be, so trust in him and talk...
2006-10-02 14:01:53 · answer #6 · answered by moon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to change him? He's just shy, and try to start talking to him. He might talk back. Some guys are just like that (speak from experience).
2006-10-02 14:04:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't change him. You can't change anyone.
If you strongly feel like this, maybe you should talk to him.
Hopefully it works out the way you want it to. Good luck
2006-10-02 13:58:54 · answer #8 · answered by marypaz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should try talkin to him maybe it works.guys are queer u kn.they want us to show a sign .so go ahead and talk to him frankly.but u must remember that in even in friendship the 1st rule says u must accept him/her as they are so drop the idea of changin him
2006-10-02 14:04:15 · answer #9 · answered by me me me!!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no idea what you are talking about, but you can not change a man.
2006-10-02 14:06:31 · answer #10 · answered by Brandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋