My girlfriend is more insecure and overprotective now knowing that we are going into our 9th month of our relationship. It's like I can't do what I want to do. She wants to be around me 24/7..She always want to be up under me; reason being is because she thinks I might be seeing another girl. Here's my question to you all. Could lnsecureness and overprotectiveness be a display of how she is deeply in love with me?...I know it's a complex or rather vague question but please help me out.
2006-10-02 06:54:06 · 9 answers · asked by Just_Asking 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, she is being like that because she truly does care and deeply. I mean would you rather she really didn't want to be arouund you and would rather hang out with her girls then you. Otr just wanted to be around you when she felt like it. NO, you would tink something was up with hert. I think you should just talk to her about, i mean maybe shes been hurt before... That can scar you. So i suggest that if you TRULY care about her the assure her that your not going anywhere and you wuld never hurt her. ONLY say this if you mean it though becuase beleive me charama wont be happy with you breaking down someones trust. But i think the fact that you asked means you care so if you want to take tnat advice i think it will help. Just be sincere and reassuring.
2006-10-02 06:59:36 · answer #1 · answered by ditchcrikets 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats just down right too contorlling...when someone wants to be with u 24/7 and finds out where u are all the time...thats just too controlling...it's time she changes her ways or time for u to leave unless u like a controlling girlfriend.oh and it's deffinitley not love!
2006-10-02 14:07:53 · answer #2 · answered by bigflirt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it is love and she is afraid if she isnt with you at all times you may find someone else. How did you meet her? Maybe that will tell you something. Some people are afraid of being abandoned and if they stay with you all the time you wont have a chance to slip away.
2006-10-02 14:01:46 · answer #3 · answered by browneyesb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what I have learned in my dating experiences it could be one of three things. One she might really like you, two, you have become very intamate, or three she might be the one that is concidering dating. Since I don't know you two, I leave it to you to make the better judgement for yourself.
2006-10-02 14:04:21 · answer #4 · answered by Casey M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SHe is just crazy about you... and maybe scared that you might leave her.. thats why she always want to be around so she knows you are not thinking about anyone but her.
2006-10-02 13:58:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in some cases yes .. she might be in love with you in the sense that she is afraid of losing you and she cant let go of you
2006-10-02 13:59:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not love it's suffocation! Your girlfriend is extremely possessive.
2006-10-02 13:56:39 · answer #7 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
perhaps its love or shes crazy and you need to get out safely while you can
2006-10-02 13:58:21 · answer #8 · answered by ndn_202 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like maybe she doesn't trust you.
2006-10-02 14:02:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋