2006-10-02 06:41:53 · 15 answers · asked by Hey What You Think? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
all the time. Even those that are good, and know what they are doing don't know my specific buttons. :)
2006-10-02 06:43:26 · answer #1 · answered by attila 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you can only let them try for so long then you have to kindly tell them. "Maybe a little slower, faster, not so hard." Some people are naturally talented, some people need practice and some people have no hope.
Depending upon how long you have been in a relationship, I am sure that both partners will greatly benefit from these suggestions.
Just ask, "What do you like? Do you like it when I ____? If you had a choice of me doing one thing to you for the next 20 minutes what would it be?"
2006-10-02 13:47:52 · answer #2 · answered by ZsMom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a requirement when i get with a female. I ask her what she likes and if i'm doing something she doesnt to just tell me. A lot of it has to do with the signs you give when things are going on. It wont kill the mood to say "no right here" or " yes keep doing that". As a woman, you should know us men arent mind readers. Now after you show him and he still gets it wrong then you have problems....hehe.
2006-10-02 13:53:26 · answer #3 · answered by bayougigolo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the smartest thing a girl can do. Better yet, it'll turn him on if you guide his fingers and show him how to apply rotation to your special area. Wanna go a little further. When you're doing him, guide his hand to his penis and place his fingers and hand around it. Pump his hand up and down on his shaft with yours. He'll soon take over and you'll have time to work on the balls. Talk about a guy that'll explode. Talk to him while he's doing it.
2006-10-02 13:46:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, most girls have to show men, unless he's been around the block a couple times...lol... Girls have to get taught as well sometimes. It's nothing to be ashamed about hon.
Good Luck!
2006-10-02 13:44:27 · answer #5 · answered by Julie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep!!!! In fact. I'm always showing just about every guy just how I like it... I can't expect him to know... he's not a mind reader!!!
Every woman is different.. we like differnt things... in different ways!!! it is this learning and growing that gives a guy a good "toolbox" for use in further relationions.
But.. the same thing goes for the woman too!!! you should be showing her what you like best and how.. that way she learns too and can use it as well!!!
its all about learning... to teach!!!1 and be taught!!!!
2006-10-02 13:45:53 · answer #6 · answered by .... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the simple answer is yes, but each girl `feels good` in different ways, so dont be afraid to ask what she likes!! it shows you are thinking of HER and that is very cool!
2006-10-02 13:44:29 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ofcourse...well not right up and make him feel like a retard..I like different things all the time so if I want something I just tell my boyfriend to do it and remind him hes soo good at it..do you think you dont know how to please a girl..ask them what they like..tell them to guide you..
2006-10-02 13:45:52 · answer #8 · answered by somegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes... but I'd prefer if he already knew how to. But there's nothing wrong with asking for a little ... um... direction/guidance
2006-10-02 13:45:49 · answer #9 · answered by who-wants-to-know 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-10-02 13:43:11 · answer #10 · answered by waynekirsten 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋