I am a little worried..i had my period the 22nd-24th( period was right on time as well) and it was lighter than normal. i have had breast tenderness and feeling sick to my stomach could i be pregnant? i am only 24..i have no insurace and people have told me i am crazy for wanting to have a child with the man i love and have only been with for 7 months? am i
2006-10-02 06:21:30 · 8 answers · asked by playboyangel_1969 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
I wouldn't say crazy, stupid yes. No insurance only 24, only known the guy 7months. What business do you have with a child??? Just because you want one is not a good reason!!! You obviously aren't mature enough to make a wise decision. Don't bring a child into this world without a Father in the home and with plans for him to stay there, without insurance and enough money to care for it properly and with someone who loves YOU as much as you love them!! You still have growing up to do!!
2006-10-02 06:27:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe crazy isn't the best word. Whatever your reason to bring a child in the world remember you will be a parent forever. I think you should look at the big picture and make sure it is the right time and the right reason. Are you doing this to try to make him love you more or to stay with you. And are you going to be able to give this child all the love it needs? Will you have to work all the time to put food on the table. there are some many thing that go into having a child, I know I have one. Little things come up all the time like b-day parties and x-mas gifts, etc. Its hard being a parent at the same time its hard knowing you want a child and not being able to have one because of money and resources. I know my husband and I are at that point now. We want another one but we couldn't give it the life we would want it to have right now and the life we already give our daughter, so we are waiting. Its sounds as if you could pregnant and if you are not ready start working fast for the child sake.
2006-10-02 13:36:30 · answer #2 · answered by Nicole 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is always a chance of being pregnant if you are sexually active. I had a full period each time with my children. An ultra sound showed I was a month further along is how we knew. If you are having no major problems, then wait and see next month. Also, speak WITH not TO your bf and see if this is what he wants. 7 months is a good start, but a family may be something he wants later on. A lot of ppl would prefer to have a home, finacial stability, and honest true love before a child comes along. I'm not saying he don't love you or he won't love a baby, but maybe he would rather have the you and him time for awhile longer. Enjoy that while you can.
2006-10-02 13:43:41 · answer #3 · answered by Liome 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 25, and I've been with my bf for 4 months. I already have a 6-year-old son, been divorced for 5 years, and in a very happy relationship. I think that the older you get, you just know what you want a little faster. My bf and I want to start trying for a baby in a few more months, and I'm very happy with that. If you are in a loving relationship, that is open and honest, then I don't see a problem with having a baby. Lots of people get married, have kids, and then get divorced anyway. What's the difference? As long as your bf agrees with having kids right now. You might want to get insurance though before anything else. Best of luck!
2006-10-02 17:51:33 · answer #4 · answered by Caelan's mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares if you're crazy? You aren't crazy for wanting a baby with the man you love. You are a little irresponsible for wanting a baby despite the fact that you have no health insurance. I don't know what your financial or employment situation is, but most pregnant women can get public assistance. Now, if you want the baby to get this guy to marry you, that tends to back fire.
2006-10-02 13:41:05 · answer #5 · answered by trivial 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, you could very well be pregnant, even with having a period. crazy for wanting the child with this man? no, that maternal urge is very strong, and nobody ever knows if a relationship will work out. i believe marriage first, then babies. if you are not pregnant, sit down with him, work out a plan to have your lives be everything you both want together, bringing a baby in right now will make your life very hard and unhappy.
2006-10-02 13:27:40 · answer #6 · answered by T C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have to step back and think a minute here. I would also look into some therapy. You seem to have some major Father child issues here.
2006-10-02 13:51:57 · answer #7 · answered by alice_600 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may be pregnant because of all the signs you are having so be careful of what you do. take a test right away because you don't want to harm yourself in anyway.
good luck and take care
2006-10-02 13:44:29 · answer #8 · answered by lil_short_mommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋