ok so i work as a host... and there was this guy that came in to the bar... and long story short we started talking (he is 21 im 16) and he bought my lunch... and we exchanged numbers and have been talking and txting and hes such a sweet heart and hes in the army stationed like an hour from where i live... do you think he really likes me? or just doesn't meet girls so the first decent girl he met, he wanted to get with? i really need your help? cuz i really like him...
2006-10-02 06:07:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
o and also i live in ks and is legal to consent to have sex with someone if your 16
2006-10-02 06:12:03 · update #1
and also i don't get how he could get caught? plus i am almost 17 and he just turned 21 so the age difference doesn't really matter to me??
2006-10-02 06:22:20 · update #2
i work at ruby tuesday so it has a bar in it
2006-10-02 06:22:59 · update #3
I think he likes you. Go out with him and get to know him.
2006-10-02 06:09:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are a little young. What bar were you in? I would not get too serious. Do your parents know about this guy? Talk with your mother about this. I know a woman who had a daughter your age who started dating an army guy and he led her down the wrong path. When mom found out it was too late. She had to grow up early because of some of the mistakes she made with him. Army guys are supposed to be mature but they are still men and have no business with a girl your age. As long as he just texts and calls you I see no problem; but if I were you I would wait untill I was at least 18 to date him.
2006-10-02 13:21:39 · answer #2 · answered by Busy Lady 2010 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will have to get to know him better. But honestly, I don't think that 16 is old enough to start getting into serious relationships. if he is 21, it is illegal to sleep with him and stuff, so don't even think about that. But as for to the dating thing, there is really no way we can know. He could be a total creap who just wants sex, or he could be a cool guy. Just be carefu. That is a big age difference and there are so many things that can go wrong with it. Personally, I think it would be best just to wait and not date him.
2006-10-02 13:10:42 · answer #3 · answered by Kiko 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be sincere but the only way to really find out is to keep talking to him. Don't sleep with him though. It could mean trouble for you both. Him especially; Despite KS laws the military has very high expectations for their men/women. Don't be a part of him ruining his military career. Allow him to do it some other way or with someone else that way you aren't stuck with the guilt.
2006-10-02 13:58:34 · answer #4 · answered by sunkistheart 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um what state are you in because in like nearly all of them you are still considered a child and if you and G I Joe decide to get it on he will be commiting a serious crime that could get him a lot of jail time with a lot of people who like having sex in uncomfortable positions. not in a volkswagen either. just be careful, and smart. yes i said smart. think use that head of yours for something besides growing hair and think about it. if you had in the first place you wouldnt need to air out some sick **** like this on the net. i am serious you hook up with this guy he becomes a pediphile. and if he gets caught with you that is the end of his military career as well.
2006-10-02 13:14:16 · answer #5 · answered by smitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry, but i think he wants a peice of you know what. I could be wrong. Dont just hop into bed with him get to know him and if he sticks around with out you having to give him a peice of a** then you know what he's all about...good luck!
2006-10-02 13:10:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like hes looking for some ***. He sounds like bad news to me.
2006-10-02 13:15:29 · answer #7 · answered by All I have to do is dream... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too young legally and he could go to jail..Let him go..sorry
2006-10-02 13:10:05 · answer #8 · answered by dwh12345 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it, take it slow, be friends first
2006-10-02 13:11:28 · answer #9 · answered by Boots4ACowgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he really likes your **** and wants a BJ
2006-10-02 13:10:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋