I've talked to the guy in Louisiana for 10 in a-half months now. He stopped calling me in August, then he calls me yesturday. We have a tight connection, but now I just don't know. Should I accept him back or curse the hell out him.
2006-10-02 06:06:08 · 14 answers · asked by bettyboop_littlebettybop 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
talk with him long enough to see what was the deal with the abrupt cut off .....
if sounds reasonable to you, the proceed as your heart leads...
but had a tight connection - seems he would have been upfront enough with you to tell you what was wrong, if anything...
either way, take baby steps until you can figure out where he is going with this....
best wishes!
2006-10-02 06:09:47 · answer #1 · answered by Marsha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you seen each other in 10 months? Is he your boyfriend? Life gets in the way sometimes and other things come up. If you guys are just friends, why curse him out. He doesn't owe you anything. Maybe as a friend you should ask what he has been up to. If your gonna ***** him out why would he call again.
2006-10-02 06:10:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give the guy a chance...you spoke with him for 10 and 1/2 months didn't you, and you have a tight connection with him...
2006-10-02 06:10:23 · answer #3 · answered by Big_E 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely do not curse the hell out of him. That is not the most mature response. Perhaps ask him where he has been, and see what his answer is. If his answer is aceptable to you, then forgive him and move on in being his friend. If his answer isn't acceptable to you, then move on.
2006-10-02 06:08:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the chemistry is still there, yeah take him back AND curse the hell out of him for letting your friendship slide. If he wants to stay in your life, he'll apologize...
2006-10-02 06:09:33 · answer #5 · answered by Boots4ACowgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-10-02 06:19:52 · answer #6 · answered by a8ina_4_ever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can start by asking him what his reason for blowing you off was. I'm sorry but in my opinion, him calling and acting as if nothing's wrong is like him assuming you were waiting for him this whole time...
2006-10-02 06:08:28 · answer #7 · answered by preciseonegirl28 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess that would depend on why he hasn't called you in two months...and unless he was in the hospital for some condition that required him to be hospitalized for two months and compromised his speech...I would say move on!!
2006-10-02 06:09:14 · answer #8 · answered by aak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd say give it a chance but only after he explains what his reasons were and if the reasons are not satisfatory or if later on his behavior isn't then forget him!
2006-10-02 06:12:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a tight connection, then why not?
2006-10-02 06:08:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋