okay i don't seem to understand guys. . .
what's wrong with me?
why don't guys like me. . .
confused. . . =/
i am a straight A student
i don't have achne
i'm NOT fat
i'm extemly athletic
my hair is a dark blonde
i have blue eyes
i have priorities.
i go to church
i am not shy
most of my clothes are from AE && Pac Sun
i love to dance and watch Will Ferrell movies
i have a great sense of humor - but i can be serious
i'm more of a natural beauty (not a lot of make-up but just enough)
i just don't get it?
what do you guys think?
or what do GUYS AIM FOR IN A GIRL?
h e l p
2006-10-02 05:59:50 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are all these things than some guys might be a little afraid to talk to you. You might need to tone it down some or you may have to go over to the guy you like and start talking to him. ( I am not saying go over there and say hey want to go out!) But you might try going over there and say you did a great job at what every, or I saw you make that touch down. Or it could be you could say will you help me understand these math questions. and let it go from there.
You sound like a nice person, maybe you should try looking at your church that way you know both of you will have at least one thing in common to start with.
Or you could just make up a Questionnaire and pass it out at school telling them that you are doing a research paper and ask them what they what or would change in you.
2006-10-02 06:18:25 · answer #1 · answered by wagg62003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be a few things.
1. You may be too intimidating! Most guys may see you as someone who will over-achieve more than they ever will. So they would rather not bother trying to when your affection. It is similar to the complex guys get when they run into a woman who makes more money than they do.
2. You may be too perfect, that men are afraid to approach you. They look at you as a Perfect 10, and they see you as being out of their league.
3. You may also come across as that girl who "is not interested in men until after college" so men just don't bother.
4. Or is your dad a big man that scares them away?
2006-10-02 06:08:25 · answer #2 · answered by coolbeanfive 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because a multi-million dollar house doesn't sell quickly or even get a lot of offers doesn't mean that something is wrong with the house. You're not getting hit on b/c you are out of a lot of people's leagues. You're offers will come, not as frequently as the cheaper models' offers. But when your offers come they will be wonderful offers by people who can tell junk from jewel, and they will be worth the wait. I promise you. I was you, many years ago. My offers came alright and now when I look at my life vs the lives of the girls that got a lot of attention when we were younger, it makes me GRIN REAL BIG!!!! It'll be worth the wait, b/c you'll get soemone who knows what to do with a gem.
Whatever you do, don't reduce your self to fit the market. It would be a crime.
2006-10-02 06:08:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like you have it all together. But I can't tell you what guys look for in a girl because each guy is different. Some guys like skinny girls and some prefer girls with curves and a little meat on their bones. I know it's cliche but beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Maybe guys are intimidated by you because you seem to have it all together and they think you probably already have a boyfriend.
2006-10-02 06:13:19 · answer #4 · answered by GT Guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie...nothing is wrong with you and nothing is wrong with the guys...you're just having trouble finding the right person and usually that does take a while be patient try to make as many friends as possible get to know and talk to as many people as possible, don't be shy and sooner or later, hopefully sooner someone great will come along.
Also sometimes average guys are intimidated by intelligent well rounded girls like you. That DOES NOT mean you need to stoop to their standard. DON'T CHANGE a thing about urself! because there is going to be someone out there who is just as smart, athletic and well rounded and secure(won't be prone to an inferiority complex) just you wait and see!!!
be patient!!!
good luck!!!
2006-10-02 06:06:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You described yourself as a beautiful blond, blue-eyed, athletic independent person. A combination that would intimidate most guys. You have to look at how you come across to others, looking at yourself, instead of asking what's wrong with the other guy. Outside of your physical appearance, are you cynical? abrasive? snotty? holier-than-thou? If you can answer 'yes' to any of these, you've answered your original question.
2006-10-02 06:05:36 · answer #6 · answered by Arnold M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Generally speaking to use them and I mean use them up it sounds like you are to smart to be used and therefore they are not drawn to you.
Women in general are the same if you can find a good mate marry him, It is not easy I thought I was going to get married but was fooled by a woman, still got the ring and a over sized house to prove it.
2006-10-02 06:05:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if I were your age you would be a catch but you are leaving something out if these things are all correct you should look at your personalty maybe it needs some improving something is not adding up I hope that you are not a snob if so that could be your problem
2006-10-02 06:06:46 · answer #8 · answered by delmonticoman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who's to say guys don't like you? Sounds like you're a knockout. Chances are most guys like you but are too shy to say anything to you. It's not an easy thing to do. Maybe you should start with the ice breakers??
2006-10-02 06:03:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay the girl you are.
The guys that don't like you are just imtimidated by you
You sound like a great catch to me. And just lighten up and do what you do.
Good luck
2006-10-02 06:04:16 · answer #10 · answered by SUPERSTAR X 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋