My cousin loves me, and I love him too. It's not really incest love, but I don't feel good enough, He's only 19 and I'm 22. I feel so sick to continue living, and each morning I wake up, I wish I could die...he's told me things no one told me, and teach me to know how I am, I felt so good, but it's getting to the point that everyone's gotta find out..
2006-10-02 05:58:28 · 21 answers · asked by candle l 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-10-02 06:43:20 · answer #1 · answered by aguywithnothingbettertodo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The hardest thing in the world is to seek help through counseling when your in the middle of a crisis. That's why it's good to ask someone this question, like you did here today. I don't know you, and I can see there is a problem, a serious one. I'm on the outside looking in. I'm not close to the problem, like you are. So I can tell you in a gentle and friendly way that there is a problem and talking to a counselor would help you work through it. I think you'd be grateful and happy if you did. A counselor is another impartial party who can look at things with you and help you work through until you have the answers. They are kind, wonderful people. I wish you the best.
2006-10-02 06:05:38 · answer #2 · answered by Night Wind 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this a blood cousin?
Its really up to you. If you think you can handle the criticism a lot of people are going to give you because it is your cousin, then go for it. I personally don't care. If he's the best thing that happened to you, why give it up just because some people say its wrong? Do what's in your heart.
2006-10-02 06:02:50 · answer #3 · answered by Kevin J 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your situation is not worth dying for. Do you love yourself? How can you love another if you can't love yourself? If you know what you are doing is wrong, then why do it. You can break it off. Noone is going to find out unless you let them. And if he's the one threatening to tell, then tell him to tell everyone and you are no longer doing whatever it is you two are doing. Honestly, if you have parents that will be ashamed by something like this and might even disown you, then its best to break it off and keep it a secret forever.
2006-10-02 06:03:53 · answer #4 · answered by Rica 82 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop sweating it. If you are lucky enough to find someone you love, don't complicate it. He's your cousin. Not your brother, not your father, not your son. Being your cousin makes him your cousin. First cousin? That's an if kind of thing because of your family. Anything past first cousin, just enjoy what is supposed to be enjoyable.
Good Luck
2006-10-02 06:03:08 · answer #5 · answered by Thomas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's a blood relative then of course you must never have children together. Otherwise there isn't really a problem besides of the problems other people will give you for having such a relationship.
I hope you find happiness.
2006-10-02 08:17:07 · answer #6 · answered by Voice of Insanity 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my neighbors are first cousins and they have been married for 26 years and are happy and in love. i dont think i could marry a cousin, only cause my cousins are like siblings. but if there is an attraction only you can decide on whether or not to act on it. it's not illigal, just frowned upon. good luck.
2006-10-02 06:02:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a little careful here. If he is a blood relative (related through your parents) then you need to step away. If he's a cousin by marriage, with no blood ties, then go ahead.
2006-10-02 06:01:40 · answer #8 · answered by Arnold M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just dont have kids....On my grandma's side, she has a set of cousins that they really did love ea other in that way. They told our family about it, went and had their reproductive organs taken out & got married!
2006-10-02 06:01:47 · answer #9 · answered by BooSha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not in no way of judging you but he is your cousin if you are feeling that you are not good enough that is telling you something is wrong with the whole relationship
2006-10-02 06:04:05 · answer #10 · answered by Rivelle W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to read the new study on cousins ,there is alot of cousins involved with each other ,I am not saying it is right or wrong just research it
2006-10-02 06:04:07 · answer #11 · answered by just_me_1955 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋