a few weeks ago i was looking in my boyfriends night stand for an old dvd remote...as i was looking i fould some pictures, so thinking they may have been of us i looked..as to my surprised it was him and another girl! at first i was beyond hot! until i looked again and realized he had no necklace on (which i bought him right after we met) and he had no tattoos (which he started getting after we moved in together, around 6 months). I know it was his ex just by the way she was dressed (his mom talks very badly about her), but it still kind of bothers me, i didnt tell him what i found just because i didnt want to be accused of snooping, which i wasnt, i found them by mistake...i know she treated him like dirt, but she was his first "serious" relationship so i can understand why he kept 2 pictures of her around...or maybe he doesnt even know he still has them...help! im not really upset...i would just some advice on maybe why he kept them or should i even waste my time thinking about it
2006-10-02 05:48:48 · 11 answers · asked by sassy2sloppy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he hates her now, i met him rigth after they broke up and we've been together for over 2 years now, he's never talked about her, and if he has...its been real mean
2006-10-02 05:55:02 · update #1
she was MUCH older than him too, he was 19 and she was 25...she looked like she was over 30 though...dressed like a hoe, and her face looked as if she was worn out
2006-10-02 05:57:43 · update #2
Now that you know the chronology of these snaps, who the girl is, and some of the history, I would drop it and not let it bother you. He may have forgotten he has them, or maybe the time they were taken was at a 'good' time between them. If so, then he may have kept them to remind him of the few actual good times they did share.
So, it might be a sign that he's trying to hang on to good things. If she treated him so badly, then make sure you treat him good! I just got rid of a woman a few months ago that treated me like crap, and I'd love to have someone just treat me like a human being for a change, but would love to have someone treat me good.
It's nothing....don't worry about it. We'll just keep this between you and me.....k?
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2006-10-02 06:00:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As you were saying he may have forgot he had them or Cuz that was his first serious girl he's always going to have the slightest feelings for her no matter what he says. I think that if he liked her a lot still then you would be able to tell. Just follow what your heart thinks, or maybe you should just ask him and see what his response is to it. If you ask him it might help clear the air of something else that is on your mind to.
2006-10-02 05:57:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since the pictures pre-date your relationship you probably have nothing to worry about. Does he talk about her often? If he does, you should ask her if you have any reason to be concerned. Keeping two pictures isn't a very big deal, especially if this was his first relationship. Keeping 10 pictures may be a bit much. Good luck.
2006-10-02 05:53:45 · answer #3 · answered by Tara P 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its his ex before you came allong he wants to keep them as like a trophy or to back himself up if she wants to cause some sort of trouble i have done the same thing its on cd and all so if she starts something ill just pull out these lovely lol photos and spread them around the town or worse in other towns aswell .......
i dont think he has cheated on u.
2006-10-02 05:55:01 · answer #4 · answered by luckydo6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not even wast your time.If you know that it is an old picture then why are you worrying about it? You should trust your man because if you keep doubting him you will miss up your relationship.
2006-10-02 05:58:31 · answer #5 · answered by Betty Bee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry aobut it. The pics are of his past. You are his present and future. Tell him you found them by accident and did he want to keep them in a photo album, or just keep them on his night stand.....No reason to be upset....
2006-10-02 05:52:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't even worry about them, cause that's in the past. Right now your his future and should just forget about that. I mean he left her for you so why should you be complaining.
2006-10-02 05:53:06 · answer #7 · answered by bettyboop_littlebettybop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a relationship is based on trust. ask him about it, explain how you found them. in a relationship nothing should be a place you or he can't see
2006-10-02 05:51:30 · answer #8 · answered by notyours 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well don;t let him know about what you found and keep search maybe you can find more stuff well if she his ex then there no problem and he will get over her soon eough
2006-10-02 05:56:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget about it you have him and she dont so let it go
2006-10-02 05:51:25 · answer #10 · answered by just_me_1955 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋