"I am not sure, but I think I love you?" Was something my boyfriend whispered in my ears last night. I am confused! I am not sure if he loves me or not! He said this, and we never spoke about it again! I cannot confront him with this, just in case I am wrong!
Any help pls?
By the way, we have being seeing each other for the past 5 months. Love was not at all discussed when we started this relationship. I know he likes me a lot... but love....I am confused!
Help!
2006-10-02 05:46:48 · 17 answers · asked by Mary M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wasn't drunk and wasn't remove any clothing. We were shooting pool.... and, I was winning LOL!
2006-10-02 05:52:18 · update #1
He must be sure. You have to confront him and let him set the record straight. How can a man whisper to your ear t.hat he is not sure but that he loves you? You have to be sure before you get too involved with him
2006-10-02 05:52:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweet heart, when a guy says that, it means exactly what he said. Don't think too much into it, and don't loose control over the situation. This relationship is delicate at this point because confussion of feeling could mean he'll fall in love and already means that he has much much love for you. Loving someone, being in love, and having love for someone are all different. This statement will alarm you because now he has you questioning if you love him or not. DO NOT MAKE THE MISTAKE OFLOVING HIM JUST BECAUSE HE LOVES YOU! Focus yourself on where you'r life is right, now, can you handle having to answer to a man, and allowing him to have so much say so on your life, do you know what love is and how it should feel? Men love women that they think they can mold. If you have shown him any of your weaknesses, and insecurities, it's probably not a good idea to entertain the L word if it's juust 5 months old!
2006-10-02 12:59:53 · answer #2 · answered by Mocha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God, this thing says Im on the roll and keep answering, so here we go...
He likes you A LOT, as you said yourself. By saying what he said he just telling you what feeling he has for you. For me it doesn''t sound as a childish "I love you" as someone says as they go out, feel attraction and think they are in love.
He seem to have something more than attraction to you and that could mean a lot. Those words have meaning in them and that what it counts.
Um... He has feeling to you, that all those words mean. Take them as they are saying @I Love You@ means the full serious relationship, those words he said suggest closer relationship.
Hope it helped.
Wolfy,
2006-10-02 12:53:48 · answer #3 · answered by lone_wolf_time_to_change 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means that he really really likes you and isnt sure if he loves you or not. Maybe he's unsure if its love is because he hasnt ever loved anymore before. No need to confront him about it. Just be happy he said it and feels that way.
2006-10-02 12:50:47 · answer #4 · answered by Michelle : 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sounds like your man should have waited until he was "sure" before he threw the "L" word out there.
Ask him, to say asking him would be "confronting" him makes it sound like a bad thing....
Be honest and tell him how you feel and see what he says. Good luck
2006-10-02 12:49:52 · answer #5 · answered by preciseonegirl28 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's def. feeling it and thinking of telng you for sure. maybe he's just waiting for the right moment, but guys NEVER say it like "that" unless they mean it. 5 months is a long time, im not surprised if he's teling the truth, just give him time. if you DO want to being it up in a conversation, do it casually.
2006-10-02 12:49:44 · answer #6 · answered by feenz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he is starting to have feelings of love but doesn't want to commit to it. Just give him time. No need to discuss right now.
2006-10-02 12:48:45 · answer #7 · answered by Nunya 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like hes confused too. And frankly, he shouldnt have said anything at all until he was sure.
I say pretend he never said it.
2006-10-02 12:48:58 · answer #8 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what article of clothing he was removing at the time.
2006-10-02 12:48:16 · answer #9 · answered by onelonevoice 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like a mans way of expressing his feelings without losing face. Maybe he does genuinely feel this way and is fishing to see how you feel.
2006-10-02 13:10:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋