I get a very nice conversation with women by mail but in the real life it does not happen...
2006-10-02 05:45:19 · 15 answers · asked by Itamar R 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Im the same way... But Im getting over it. Make some girl friends and dont worry about what they think of you. Because the more you worry the more you mess up or dont know what to say.. ect. If you just relax you feel more free and can talk. Dont worry about what they are thinking about you... Or if what you just last said sounded stupid. You need to find the zone you are in when you are talking by mail... And use it in real life. But you have to be willing to get out there and make new friends and talk.
2006-10-02 05:48:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
MAybe you spend too much time on the internet?
You are supposed to have at least ten social outlets... school church family and work is one combined, now you need nine more. Then youll meet someone for sure. Get off the net and back to life
2006-10-02 05:48:13 · answer #2 · answered by Hillary Dillary 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you have a problem of self esteem, or that is just because you are still young, i used to be very very shy, but, now, im not afraid of almost anything. When i like a guy i talk to him, and tell him my feelings, and ofcourse i get a little nervous, but i dont let it get to me. So, dont let your nervs get to you!
2006-10-02 07:24:36 · answer #3 · answered by nadie entendia mi nick asi que lo cambie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
B/c on the computer you can be, act, say anything you want...but when faced with someone in real life you have nothing to hide behind!!
2006-10-02 05:48:41 · answer #4 · answered by BooSha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're scared like I am. Sure you can talk to people online, but when you meet them in person, you don't know what to say, or how they'll react to it. And that's why. Nothing you can do but to open your mouth, and start talking, at least that's what I've been told.
Good luck
2006-10-02 05:48:37 · answer #5 · answered by Read the nametag, Duh! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be confident in your S***T, If you dont think you are attracting or interesting then why should women do. Look good, feel good, smell good, and let her know you can smack that A** good.
2006-10-02 05:49:20 · answer #6 · answered by bthompsonusa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be yourself - you can practice with your sister or mom.. and always ask normal and real questions - this is a learning process - I was like you - but you learn as you know more ppl -
2006-10-02 05:51:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You spend too much time on the computer. GEEK
Get out and develop some social skills..........
2006-10-02 05:51:14 · answer #8 · answered by whidd2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how you feel but you gotta try and relax if you gez too nervous your heart will pump fatser and faster and then what happnes its will explode or just stop. careful.
2006-10-02 05:46:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get involved with other people through hobbies and such. It is something you can over come!!!!!!
2006-10-02 05:48:37 · answer #10 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋