And obviously to my booty? Do you think he was a commitment phobe if nothing came out of it? I just need to feel better about the situation, but get this, I just remembered that he had showed off my *** to his friends when I first met him. And I told him it was only for him, and he said, I know. UH What was I, a freakin' trophy to him? Is that what it was?
2006-10-02 05:34:16 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yep.. you were just his steady piece of A**.
you should drop him - unless that is fine with you.
I don't see any real "relationship" from what you describe. just someone who liked sleeping with you.
2006-10-02 05:39:07 · answer #1 · answered by .... 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's a guy and 99.9% of guys are scum. I'd have to say he was only looking to get off and not looking for an actual relationship. You didn't do anything wrong other than perhaps having sex too soon. After all, if the guy is getting the physical benefits without actually showing the love, fidelity and commitment that go with a sexual relationship why should he actually have the responsible side of a relationship? Go out and find a guy who loves YOU and wants ONLY YOU. Make him wait and put some effort into being with you before he actually gets with you. If you continue to give yourself away to anyone, you'll either end up alone but sexed on a regular basis or in a relationship devoid of caring and love.
2006-10-02 05:46:24 · answer #2 · answered by kealey 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
3 things to consider here...
1. You are a trophy. If he is showing you off to his friends then you are definitely someone he is proud to have sex with. It proves that he is more of a man than his friends, because he can sex with a Perfect 10 like you.
2. You are the finest girl he has been able to have sex with, so he is not going to pass up having sex with someone like you. At least not until someone better comes along (which sounds like that is not going to happen).
3. And lastly, it was hard to find someone to have sex with no commitments, so he is not going to just give up a good thing.
End of the day you hold the cards, you can cut off the good stuff whenever you want and he'll be begging you like a dog who just had it's bone snatched away.
2006-10-02 05:53:02 · answer #3 · answered by coolbeanfive 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If nothing came out of it - you simply aren't the one - for whatever reason. Some guys are afraid of commitment but others will just do what's convenient at the moment. If he was just calling you for a booty call, then he just wants that into you. If he was calling you his girlfriend and buying you birthday presents, etc....than he was into you. Sound's like he was attracted to you but not interested in anything long term. And therefore, he wasn't attracted to you ENOUGH to have anything come of it. Move on.
2006-10-02 05:39:08 · answer #4 · answered by Lioness 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chill, you've been together a year, did you ever bother to have a serious conversation about how the both of you viewed this relationship? If you didn't, then your just as much at fault here. Perhaps he thinks that he's nothing but a booty call to you as well. You need to talk to him and find out.
2006-10-02 05:39:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He was probably attracted to you and the fact that you were into having sex with him. Maybe he was a commitment phobe, but more then likely he was just a jerk who took advantage of you. i am sorry you ended up hurt by this.
2006-10-02 05:37:38 · answer #6 · answered by cynner942000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's a jerk. Did he just lead you on and show fake respect that whole year? Next time, get a committment from your future lover and tell yourself that you are worth nothing but the best and never settle for anything less. Make that your motto and you will avoid a lot of future hurts. Good luck to ya!! GaryT
2006-10-02 05:37:20 · answer #7 · answered by gary t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure there was some attraction somewhere. I had a girl that wanted to come over all the time and spend the nite. I did not love her, but she was an attractive person. I did not refuse the sex. I suppose that's men for ya. Whatcha think?
2006-10-02 05:39:10 · answer #8 · answered by dd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just because you and a guy goes out and continued to have sex doesn't mean that he genuine likes you...i've learned that the hard way. I literally went out with my x-boyfriend for going on a whole damn year talk about a waste of time. And as for him showing your stuff to his friends that definately disrespectful on his behalf. You were considered a trophy to him.
2006-10-02 05:38:45 · answer #9 · answered by grenadianjewel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily. There are myriads of factors involved. For all we know, he may not be attracted to you, and may only be having lots of sex with you and parading you around like a trophy because he is trying to prove to everyone that he's not really gay (when he is).
How's that for a head trip?
2006-10-02 05:40:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are attracted to woman...most anyway...now the booty is what stimulates us and that is what causes the attraction.holding it feeling it showing it off to your friends...so yes you answered it right...in other words you were what they call a piece of #SS!!!but don't get your feelings hurt,at least you got a booty..some one will step up to hit it...
2006-10-02 05:44:32 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋