she was with her boyfriend for about 7-8 months before she left. they are supposed to be waiting for each other until she is done with training and then move to arizona for her job in the airforce. I know they didnt break up because all they ever talked about is how much they love each other.
so today i checked out his myspace to see what was up and he took her off his page! he took off all of their pics together and took her off his top 8. he also has a few overly friendly messages from this one girl.
i will be writing to her soon. is this something i should tell her about? just like ask if they were cool b4 she left
he deleted all his pics of her though! thats the worst!
if anything he should have them displayed the biggest because she is gone! dont you think?
i am worried for my friend because I dont want her to get hurt and i definetly dont want her to be cheated on!
2006-10-02 05:21:42 · 4 answers · asked by The Weed Fairy 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok i emailed him asking what is up with that?
do you think i did the right thing?
2006-10-02 06:07:40 · update #1
You should tell her. But try not to scare her, maybe they did leave in bad terms and didnt tell anyone. Better yet, you should ask the guy about it.
2006-10-02 05:25:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
appreciate the fact that you are concerned .... that is the sign of a good friend
know you are more concerned about her being away in service and safe
at this time, it is not your place to relay this information to her
am sure there were things she may have already been questioning, especially since his actions were so speedy....there were probably already flags there
they may have had an agreement to have an open relationship since there would be obvious time apart.....if not, just shows his real colors that she would have come to terms with eventually
do not continue to be deputy-dog unless she request it......these are matters between the two of them
if you push too hard, she may end up thinking you have a motive of your own
the truth generally reveals itself
right now - lets pray for her safety during her stay and her safe return
best wishes to you all!!!
2006-10-02 12:55:40 · answer #2 · answered by Marsha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should tell her very discreetly what is going on with the myspace website he has and excuse yourself to her for interfering in her personal affairs. Tell her what a good friend she is and you don't want her hurt but she should know this.
Good Luck and I hope you two stay friends.
2006-10-02 12:27:07 · answer #3 · answered by PsychoSam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could asked your bestfriend on how her relationship with the guy is going. Maybe they did break up and you didnt know about it. Talk to her and let her know about it
2006-10-02 12:24:43 · answer #4 · answered by Jon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋