2006-10-02 05:21:41 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
What is it that you love about her? If you know she is not trustworthy and is of low integrity then you should really think about what makes you think you love her.
2006-10-02 05:25:47 · answer #1 · answered by Lucy E 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
There's an old saying, "Where there's smoke, there's fire." The reverse is also true. Your relationship has flamed out. What you need to do now is replay in your memory the instances where there was the smoke of her distain for you. Think back in the past of episodes where she didn't care about you. See these as what they were: evidence that she wasn't a good girl friend and that she would eventually break up with you. Replay these events in your mind 3 times a day for a week. Keep doing this until when you think of her and the relationship, these betrayals are what you think of first, not her body or whatever attracted to you.
Nothing happens in a vacuum. Her bad treatment of you was going on during the relationship. Find those episodes and realize that was the truth, and not your hopes and dreams for her.
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2006-10-02 05:33:24 · answer #2 · answered by robabard 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never new...er...knew, leaving one like a piece...er...peace of paper was the equivalent of ditching or dumping. So you are feeling like an occupant of a waste paper basket? An idea you should not try at any cost - burn the piece of paper. An idea you must try at all costs - recycle the the piece of paper. Starting afresh with someone new and trustworthy would make you forget her automatically and make the writing on the paper memorable for ever. And peace will return to your mind for sure.
2006-10-02 05:35:27 · answer #3 · answered by Modest 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a choice...I know that this seems simplistic, but it is true. You chose to love her, now choose to not love her. The hardest part is filling your need for companionship, affection, and attention that you got from her. This would be a good time to re-connect with old friends that you might have neglected a bit recently. Take a class, meet new people, get a puppy. Just don't set yourself up for future heartbreak and disappointment by chasing after somebody who is not worthy of your time attention and affection. It's your life, choose to live it ...you are not a slave to your emotions (no matter what you might belive from the latest love songs). Before long you will feel strong and confident because you will know that you are not a puppet to be toyed with and tossed aside. (And that, my friend, is attractive to women.)
2006-10-02 05:31:56 · answer #4 · answered by Jodie C 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you just need to move on. It will be hard at first. Do things that would keep your mind off of her. Go out with friends have a good time. Before you know it you will forget all about her. It will take some time though like i said before. Believe me its not easy i have been there. it wasn't good. and i have seen my friends go threw it as well. as long as you keep your self occupied she will no longer remain in your head. Maybe go out and meet some new girls there's always more fish in the sea. and there's are probably a lot of better girls out there looking for someone to love them. Good luck =D
2006-10-02 05:32:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is like my story, except I'm the girl who likes the friend. To be honest I would feel annoyed at you if you were trying to make me hate the boy I like so I guess you should let her go. Find someone else to like (which I know it's not easy) but I am saying this because if your friend and the girl get together, you could loose your friendship with the guy and be miserable when you see them two together.
2016-03-18 03:42:35 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i assure u, u cannot forget her alone.u need to make new girl frnd and share all ur feelings wid her.remember a girl can give the best suggession,not ur frnds,they will make fun of u.
if the girl u choose as a frnd is a true and kind at heart she will definately get u out of the situation.
think positively buddy,if that girl left u alone thats good atleast she is not cotinuing a broken relationship further.
keep ur ego wid u let her go perhaps u deserved better that her.
best of luck buddy and takecare,think positively.
ul forget her as time paases and sm other girl cms in ur life.
best of luck i hope i helped u!
2006-10-02 06:04:48 · answer #7 · answered by sakshi s 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Getting thru a devastating break up takes time ... and there are several steps to go thru .. do your grieving and celebrate the woman she WAS .. remember the good times THEN recalll how she left you ... abandoned you ... lied to you ... get mad .. get pissed then get closure. Write her a letter and let fly with all the stuff she did to you and how it made you feel .. then .. trust me .. BURN it .. don't waste any more time on a person who won't even give yo uthe consideration of being loyal to a super-fine, great, amazing, smart, funny guy like you :)
Good luck .. wishing you well
2006-10-02 05:52:12 · answer #8 · answered by Brooklyn 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep yourself busy. Find some new activities for yourself. Get involved with volunteer work or some local interest group... that way I bet you'll meet a new girl in no time.
2006-10-02 05:34:51 · answer #9 · answered by Telesto 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you won't forget, you just have to learn from it..a relationship ending can feel the same as someone dying..you have to grieve the end of this relationship and then you can move on to a new one where you won't be carrying so much emotional baggage...go out with your friends and do all the things you like to do..focus on you
2006-10-02 05:30:37 · answer #10 · answered by pinkerfluffierbadger 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you won't forget, but the good news is that every day it will get easier day by day. Immerse yourself in new things. Take a dance class, or guitar lessons or something. Refocus your energy. I know it sucks, but you can either be a schmuck or grow from it
Good luck!
2006-10-02 05:39:23 · answer #11 · answered by Kikka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋