Stress, Job, Bad relationships got me where I am today. I hate dating too. But, my years are passing me by quick. I like alone time but this is getting bad for my health!
2006-10-02 05:16:08 · 26 answers · asked by TriSec 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, I'm not ugly and I'm 40
2006-10-02 05:18:18 · update #1
and NO I havent had sex in 4 years either. I told you I need help....not gay either.
2006-10-02 05:19:36 · update #2
That's just it...I have lost confidence in myself. It use to be a lot easier when I was in 20s-30s.......and no, I dont want another job because I make killer money but stress from it is horrible.
2006-10-02 05:23:37 · update #3
are you gay or something
2006-10-02 05:17:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Hello. A friend of mine who is about your age didn't have a period for a year, then got one again. She is going through menopause, and her periods have been very irregular for quite a while now. That could be the case with you also. That can also be a symptom of something a little more serious, so you really should go to the doctor just to rule that out. Going by your age, my guess is menopause, which can do crazy things to your body. Sore breasts are usually caused by hormonal changes, and there's plenty of that going on during menopause :-) Try not to worry, and take care.
2016-03-18 03:42:28 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check out Yahoo Personals. I've made some good friends there. Haven't found "the one" yet, but hey, it's a start. Or e-Harmony. I've heard good things about it also.
2006-10-02 05:22:51 · answer #3 · answered by girlfriend 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not get involved with groups rather than a one on one.
Church....Health club.....Sport group....Volunteer group.....
Anything to get you into mingling with people. Sooner or later you may run across someone who's company you'd enjoy...And vise versa. Someone to spend time with, and still have your alone time.
If nothing seems to suit you, then try some professional assistance. Ya know the ole saying.......
Apparantly you're not seeing the forest for the trees.
2006-10-02 05:27:55 · answer #4 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to go get some and QUICK!!! don't you know it will fall off if you dont use it?!
ok- I am SOO kidding! Dude, seriuosly, don't worry! Be yourself, and there are lots (believe it or not) of single, divorced, and widowed women out there looking for a guy like you and worry about the same exact things....it will be OK!
2006-10-02 05:51:11 · answer #5 · answered by ooh baby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm having the same problem,it's been close to 4yrs for me to.People say i need to go to librays,supermarkets,crurches and so on.Well they also suggested bars,but i'm an alcoholic so thats out of the question.Good luck and i look forward to seeing other answers to this question.
2006-10-02 05:20:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to be more outgoing and not such a loner. Start up conversations with women. Even though you don't like dating, you will have to try if you want to be with a woman. Good luck.
2006-10-02 05:18:22 · answer #7 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just get back in the game... go to places you enjoy and try to meet a woman there. Try not to be shy, go up and talk to women. I am sure things will work out. Don't panic.
2006-10-02 05:22:21 · answer #8 · answered by betterlife_travel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax, get another job, forget your past relationships. Put down the mouse and go out and do something where you will meet people! Take a class, volunteer somewhere, do SOMETHING where you will meet lots of women to date! Good luck!
Edit: OK, is there a slightly less killer job you can take up to make slightly less money? Because what will the money do for you if you cannot enjoy your life?
2006-10-02 05:20:45 · answer #9 · answered by anonymous 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can start from here.Chat,make friends and if you hate goin out for dates,get a webcam and you can have as many online girlfriends as you want!When you're comfy enough,log off and out u go....Enjoy.Hey...why don't you start now?
2006-10-02 05:20:54 · answer #10 · answered by mary 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need a release. Something else to do. If you go out, have a few drinks, you will basically kill 2 birds with 1 stone. You will be able to relax and maybe make some friends.
2006-10-02 05:18:29 · answer #11 · answered by JC 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋