ok i need help on this situation.
i have a boyfriend and i really like him. i think he likes me too or he wouldnt have said yes to go with me. but lately he has been acting funny over the phone. everytime i call him on the phone he has nothing to say like he is bored and dont want to talk to me, i have to always think of the conversation, he never wants me to call him back, and it really doesnt seem like he is paying me any attention. it wasnt like this a couple days ago to remind you we have only been going together for about a week and it seems like he is changing already to me. is it just me or what should i do. do i need to get his attention in someway at school if so whats hould i do? and i dont want to really confront him about this because if this is not how he really feels he might fell offended and break up with me. we go to school tomorrow so then i can see him face to face what should i do? i dont want to break up with him?
2006-10-02 05:13:09 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stop calling him all the time & let him call you if he wants to. You can't force someone to like you in that way.... sorry, honey.
2006-10-02 05:15:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he doesn't like talking on the phone. Or, more simply, maybe he is not all that interested in having a relationship. You seem young, and young guys like to hang out with their friends and just have a great time. If you are not happy, do the same. Enjoy these years with your friends. They don't last long at all.
2006-10-02 05:16:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is how a few of my relationships were i could never get them to talk on the phone when i called it is hard what i ended up having to do was make sure i payed attention when i called and talked to them like if she was having a fight with a friend then i would remember that and ask her how it was going a few days later to let her know i am listening and to get her to talk
2006-10-02 05:24:01 · answer #3 · answered by super_man_4888 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him back! Guys always want what they cant have, so quit making yourself so accessible. If he is worthy he will call you! Play the game to get the guy, and keep playing it when you have him. Its harsh, but its the truth! AND IT WORKS! I know this first hand, I've been playing it all my life and now i have the most amazing husband. You gotta do it, to protect yourself and keep the guys wanting you!
2006-10-02 05:15:40 · answer #4 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't make it an effort to talk to him in school or call him. Let him come to you and talk to you first. If he asks why you haven't been talking to him, let him know the truth and you have been hurt. I know it sounds hard, but have the will power to do it. If he doesn't come to you and ask what's up, he's not worth it. Good luck.
2006-10-02 05:15:52 · answer #5 · answered by camping_girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might not be interested in you anymore. You will just have to accept it and move on. If you want to keep your dignity you should break up with him. It could also be something going on at his house(but I doubt it).
2006-10-02 05:17:40 · answer #6 · answered by peach49444 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You call him all the time and pester him, you already think negatively about him, and you don't want to confront the problem...
Wow, you like setting yourself up for failure huh?
2006-10-02 05:17:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe hes not a "phone talker". You dont say how things are when you are together so I can only assume its ok.
2006-10-02 05:15:43 · answer #8 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to put some space between the two of you. if hes acting uninterested, give him a dose of his own medicine. unfortunately it could be that he has lost interest, that is a possibility.
2006-10-02 05:18:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you write another question this long, I will send someone to break your legs
2006-10-02 05:14:34 · answer #10 · answered by cdrfish7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋