First of all we are both in our mid 20's, just to let you know... My boyfriend came over last night to pick me up and he saw that I was on the computer. He wanted to check his e-mail, I said ok. Since I was on yahoo Answers, it auto logged me into yahoomail. He read some e-mails that a friend of mine sent me. And we broke up... This friend is just an online friend that lives in abouther state far away. My bf got upset because the guy called me babe and honey. He also said I have a sexy body (from what he could tell in pics). Not dirty pics just normal every day pics.
I don't know what to do. I love him so much and now he doesn't want me back.He thinks I am cheating on him, but I'm not and never will. I am at a loss, we were planning on getting married next year. I have to go to his house later to drop off his tools that were in my car. What should I say????? I want him back
2006-10-02 05:11:06 · 19 answers · asked by collegebusygirl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell him you will do anything to have himback...
delete e-mails...old friends...messenger...
and yes guy sdon't like the internet thing...
my bf saw my myspace yesterday and saw tha ti had many guys there that were my HS friends but he didnt care he got pissed..
so watch out
2006-10-02 05:16:18 · answer #1 · answered by Cutie77 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I am guilty as well for this sort of matter just that its lucky that i never got found out. However I know that you are innocent so you should explain to your boyfren sincerely that you don't mean any harm and that your fren is just being too rediculous and that you are gonna delete the email anyway soon. Also tell him that he's an online fren and you have never met up with any other guy. If all else fails, answer two questions. Do you still want him back even after he has failed to forgive you after you have seek his forgiveness for the upteenth time and did you really enjoy any bit of your correspondence with the email fren?
2006-10-02 05:18:02 · answer #2 · answered by robliv16 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, if your internet "friend" was really just a friend, he shouldn't be calling you babe, honey, and saying you have a sexy body. I don't blame your bf for being upset and thinking you were cheating on him.
I would probably have your "friend" email him to ensure that there is nothing between you and that friend. It may/may not work, but he'll at least be hearing from that person why the friend said the things he did.
In the future, it would be wise not to have the autolog feature on. It may be annoying to type passwords, but would help avoid future instances like you just had.
2006-10-02 05:22:49 · answer #3 · answered by Rex 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl i know what you mean my boyfriend got mad at me for being on myspace because i had mostly guy friends , we are still working on it,,but back to you r problem, well i think if he really love you as much as you love him he wouldn't have broke up with you, but he's hurt right now- just apologize and tell him the details and give him some space he will call you and tell you how you hurt him and try to work it out-oh tell him how much he means to you and how you would never intentionally hurt him...
2006-10-02 05:25:59 · answer #4 · answered by luvlilsexy21 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its emotional dishonest - whilst a guy or woman generally speaks with, or emails somebody who they're attracted to they start an emotional dating - despite in the event that they in no way plan on seeing the guy. those relationships can sometimes enhance to sexual ones - the place sexual photos and words are exchanged. i in my opinion could be only as harm if my boyfriend became to start an emotional dating considering's what i'm meant to be here for. it is actual dishonest. think of in regards to the type you will possibly sense in case you have been on the un-understanding end.
2016-10-18 08:48:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could tell him you are the only one for me. Also tell him that guy is a pervert. I dont like him, just as an e-mailer. Tell him you are sorry you had someone make him think that. Also tell him that the pics you sent that person are not dirty pics. They are normal pics you see of me everyday.
2006-10-02 05:17:32 · answer #6 · answered by heath 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I say the tools are at your house, let him come to you...
Can see in part where he is coming from, if you were contented with your relationship why did you need to be talking with another guy on the internet w/o telling him.
Looks as if you were hiding something and makes him question your sincerety.
Be patient and when you can, reassure him it is him that you love and care about!
If it is meant to be, will work out!
2006-10-02 05:17:04 · answer #7 · answered by Marsha 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If dude can't understand what you're telling me, then he was a lost cause to begin with. Tell him that since he's not willing to fight for your love then he didn't want to be with you in the first place. This whole internet thing sounds like a big azz cop out.
2006-10-02 05:14:14 · answer #8 · answered by peach49444 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well trust is a big issue. One give him soem time to cool off... It works wonders. Also tell him how you feel. I think there are other trust issues if he has to go into your email tho. Remember if it is truelly ment to happen it will happen.
2006-10-02 05:14:31 · answer #9 · answered by Need Much Help 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
One of the things that led my old man to think I was cheating without hard actual proof....
2006-10-02 05:15:05 · answer #10 · answered by WonderTwit 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋