It was hard to get over what i did in the past as a kid. I am ALMOST over it i think. I was just wondering what all of you have done in the past as a kid. What i did was when they were sleeping. I got on top of 1 which was younger and I might of humped ( i don't know how old but i was under 10) and then when i was still younger, i put my chest in my little cousin's face who was alot younger. I realize it's normal but i still feel bad so will you guys tell me what you did as a kid like this like doing sexual things while someone didn't know or was sleeping and they were younger or if someone you know did it. I know i posted this in the wrong spot. Sorry! Thanks. You guys helped last time. I'm almost over it. YAY. I am sick of rude people on here though. I was a child! stop saying i was a whore or pedofile. A CHILD you idiots to the ones who said that. So this question is for the MATURE people! Thanks.
2006-10-02 04:58:38 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Jess, it is very normal for children to explore their sexuality in different ways. Every child is different and their upbringing is different, so there will be various ways that each child decides to stretch his or her wings.
I will say that dry humping someone in their sleep is a little unusual: Is it possible that you witnessed someone else doing that act and hence that is what you did first? Don't feel badly now though....as a kid, you likely did not understand the true ramifications of your actions. However, if you did it in their sleep so they would not be aware, then you did know it might not be right. I wouldn't worry about it now unless you still have impulses that you cannot control or you still choose to do things that you know are wrong.
In any case.....children are imulsive and curious, so don't beat yourself up. Just be responsible and appropriate in your life as an adult and move on from your childhood explorations.
2006-10-02 05:07:05 · answer #1 · answered by brookebjpl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you say that what you probably did became prevalent... it really is not any longer. although i does no longer say you've been a pedophile, there is genuinely some thing incorrect. and also you recognize that it really is misguided or there does no longer be some thing so as that you'll "get over". lots of the time at the same time as a baby does some thing like this to a youthful baby, it truly is because they themselves were sexually abused. have you ever talked to a therapist about what got here about? If no longer, I strongly recommend that you do, and then you will be able to finally be able to heal.
2016-11-25 22:34:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Part of a child's development is exploring their sexuality. I think what happened is fairly normal. I know as you get older, you begin to wonder if it was wrong. Our Western culture has demonized sexuality to the point that we wonder if everything we have done is wrong in some way. I can't help you get over your feelings, but I can say try not to worry so much. Children need to explore certain things that they are feeling, and some of them may be slightly inappropriate, but as long as you did not purposely coerce a younger child to perform a sexual act that included penetration, and as an adult, you can acknowledge that sexual acts between an adult and child are inappropriate, you may have a fairly "normal" idea of relationships. Good luck.
2006-10-02 05:13:02 · answer #3 · answered by noambition 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest, reading all that you've wrote, you seem to have already justified your actions with the "I was just a child" line.
Yes, you were a child and obviously you won't have been doing anything in a sexual manner at that age so you really have nothing to feel guilty about.
It's obvious you're finding this difficult to come to terms with even though you are saying you're over it... if you were over it you wouldn't need to keep asking other people's opinions or justifications on what you have done. Again, you haven't done anything wrong, but you perhaps need to seek help in order for you to overcome this completely.
But give your mind some peace... and ignore the petty comments!
2006-10-02 05:05:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure what to say to you.I often thought about "adult things" when I was a kid I guess we all do if we're honest but maybe some of us just don't get oppertunities to see how far we'd go.Don't beat yourself up over it,Christ you were only a 10 year old!
2006-10-02 05:09:39 · answer #5 · answered by HIGHWAYSTAR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's good that you haven't continued with this behavior. It's also good that you're still trying to move past these incidents.
However, it still bothers you enough to ask for advice and stories from others! So maybe you shouldn't torture yourself with guilt and shame, and talk to a counselor or something just so you can get educated advice on how to move completely past this.
Good luck!
2006-10-02 05:11:02 · answer #6 · answered by MissJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like you are over it to me... It sounds to me like you are still titillated by it and want to hear what others have done. I would suggest that you seek counseling immediately.
You are not a bad person for doing what you did as a child. However, there is probably more behind your actions than you realize. Seriously you should see a counselor.
2006-10-02 05:03:15 · answer #7 · answered by shughes2000_2000 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well, you were a child so it shouldn't count to how you are in your adult years. You didn't know what you were doing. I did stupid things, like grabbed my brother in the wrong place all the time, or bit his neck when he was sleep(then he had a hickey for two days) KIDS!!!
2006-10-02 05:08:41 · answer #8 · answered by Pinky Stinky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lots of kids have done that, i did, not to anyone that didnt want to do it or was sleeping, but my cousin and i got caught under the covers, we were 9 and he was fingering me, didnt even know what it was called. my 4 yr. old neice was humping her stuffed dog. your not a bad or sick person(unless you think a/b children now! J/K!!) so, get over it and me and my next door neighbor was 5 and i was11 and we played like that. big deal, if God forgives us, why cant we forgive ourselves?
2006-10-02 05:06:19 · answer #9 · answered by luvnherb 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Im curious as to what may have happened to you to act this way because, no, this is NOT typical child behavior. But the good thing is, sorta of, is that it bothered you. Maybe some professional help would benefit you.
2006-10-02 05:03:49 · answer #10 · answered by JC 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋