sit at home while he was having fun, so I went to a bar to try to meet new friends. While there I saw him with his friend and another guy. He was being groped by both of them...one had his hands down his pants. This hurt me so much. I know I need to break it off, but I have dated him for 2 years. My mind says to break up, but my heart says to stay with him. I need help. Thanks for all advice.
2006-10-02 04:52:27 · 10 answers · asked by :-) 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I honestly was not looking to hook up...I guess down deep I was hoping to see what he was up to...and coinicidentally I found him and got an eye full.
2006-10-02 05:11:52 · update #1
Lots of girls with boyfriends like this just lie to themselves, "That's how all guys are, they can't help it when someone attractive starts flirting with them, I know he really loves me and only me."
However, you're a guy, so you know that's not true: we might find it difficult to stay monogamous in the face of someone attractive and willing, but ANY guy who truly loves and respects his mate can muster the self-control. Don't hold him to lower standards than you hold yourself to.
You may love him, and you may keep loving him for a long time after, but he needs to be out of your life immediately. Best of luck, pal.
2006-10-02 05:00:28 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ok you need to follow ur mind... once a cheater always a cheater... if u really dont want to brake up, then talk to him and try to straiten things up with him.... tell him that it bothered you and either it stops or your gone. It is hard, but its something you need to do... I have been there and after a year i was feeling so much better that I didnt have to worry about someone cheating on me.... Good Luck
2006-10-02 12:01:52 · answer #2 · answered by sexyghostgirl69 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well thats interesting but then again you have to think about yourself because if is sleeping with those men then you can be a danger of getting aids hiv if youre sleeping with him. but maybe this was just a sign. i would break it off because not only was he cheating it was with a man and thats just nasty. i think you can do better because he is only lyin and cheating on you and u dont need negative influences like that in your life its best for you to move on
2006-10-02 11:57:35 · answer #3 · answered by Leah M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like both of you were out doing the same thing....out looking for "new friends". What did or could you expect???? Pops
2006-10-02 11:57:56 · answer #4 · answered by Pops 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on, you didn't go out to meet new friends, you went out to hook up. It's time to end this now.
2006-10-02 12:04:56 · answer #5 · answered by buldawg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would confront him...it may not have been what it looked like (could be exactly what it looked like too). Talk to him and see..maybe you two could work it out, or maybe it is time to just move on. Good Luck!
2006-10-02 12:02:31 · answer #6 · answered by naughtykitty94 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u need to stop the insanity
he cheated on u
men r going to be men
start dating women
2006-10-02 11:57:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Run from the chocolate jockey! Run fast and far!
2006-10-02 11:57:06 · answer #8 · answered by eastern_mountain_outdoors 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You should have "broke it off" a long time ago.
2006-10-02 11:56:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
So you saying he's gay, it's gonna be hard but you have to let him go he's gay you will never satisfy him
2006-10-02 11:58:34 · answer #10 · answered by luvlilsexy21 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋