I have come out of a long term relationship (6 years) and I don't seem to get the whole dating game so HELP!
2006-10-02 04:49:05 · 12 answers · asked by queen 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you haven't already read it, RUN - Don't walk - to your nearest library and pick up a copy of HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU. We women need guidelines such as are given in this book and guess what, they come via a "man."
2006-10-02 10:12:51 · answer #1 · answered by Moe J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was married for a long, long time, then divorced. I don't think I am very qualified to answer your question. But I do know your not the only one that is this situation as some of the others answers reveal. I know how you feel. But when you do start dating just remember that you do need to be yourself, and put on no airs. Be confident, and to hell with them that don't like you. One of these days you'll find the right one, and you'll have that peace deep down on the inside where your heart; (your mind, will, and soul resides)............Good Luck!
2006-10-02 10:05:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I broke up with my boyfriend a year ago, we had been together 6 years, the relationship was shite though and abusive, then when you go on a date for the first time, it feels great, especially when you meet a great guy, just be yourself, chill out and enjoy each others company, its the best feelin in the world i think! good luck
2006-10-02 06:05:19 · answer #3 · answered by ball_cathie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be friendly and don't fall for the first one that comes along. I know it'll hurt for a while that you ended your last relationship too. I just ended one not too long ago as well. But take some little baby steps and just get out there. Find a way to be happy with yourself too...you know, comfortable in your own skin.
2006-10-02 04:52:22 · answer #4 · answered by synchronicity915 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have a brother who is in " the Dating world ". The older you get the more complicated it gets. I see very attractive people struggling in the dating world. Dating in your older years is alot tougher than during your younger years..
Socialize with good people, and good luck.
2006-10-02 04:53:00 · answer #5 · answered by Susan K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, my dad told me that dating is simply a way to determine if that person is worthy of a second date with you. If you go on a date and you seem to "click", then obviously a second date would be nice.
If you don't "click", then move on to someone who seems like the right person you need to be with. You'll find someone out there that shares your interests, who you enjoy being with (and likewise enjoys being with you), and you will know if you would like to persue that relationship further.
Just consider it sorta like shopping around for the right deal. xD
2006-10-02 04:57:16 · answer #6 · answered by New mommy 2010! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love Smart by Dr. Phil McGraw is a new book on this subject. Best wishes.
2006-10-02 11:41:17 · answer #7 · answered by Rhonda 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think confidence is the key to attracting people into your life. I think that everyone likes being around people who are happy and comfortable with themselves. It can be hard to meet new ppl, maybe try going to different places, trying new things?
Good luck x
2006-10-02 04:52:14 · answer #8 · answered by Akasha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's a link to a book you should read, it will help you to learn the simple task of just talking to people more.
2006-10-02 04:53:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself and you will find the right one for you.
2006-10-02 04:57:40 · answer #10 · answered by Symbolic User 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋