ok on friday night we had a school dance, and my boyfriend Marley and i were slow dancing. we were pretty close to each other i was wearing a short skirt and after we were dancing for a while i felt his penis sorta go up my skirt around that area. i really like Marley, we've been going out for 5 months and he is a complete gentelmen, but what does this mean, did he have an erection because he wanted to have sex with me??
2006-10-02 04:47:38 · 32 answers · asked by Yoko Ono 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girl... You are too young to be asking this stuff. Dont sweat it. Guys get those at really random times. Could just be he really likes you. I've dated guys before that would get erections when they were in the car waiting for me to come out for a date. Or when they were watching some scary movie. It usually doesnt mean anything.
2006-10-02 04:50:31 · answer #1 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You turned him on. Men can't help that. Just don't act on it. Men get an erection when they are in their height of glory. He was one very happy boy to just be with you he couldn't help the erection part. JUST DO NOT ACT ON IT. NO SEX NO WAY a baby would end your wonderful teen years and if Marley loves you he will agree with that.
2006-10-02 04:56:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparently you are very young if you're asking this question. Young men (boys) get an erection very quickly and lose it just as fast. Your closeness was enough to do so but that doesn't mean he wanted to have sex with you. Take it slow, educate yourself and stay safe!
2006-10-02 04:54:47 · answer #3 · answered by Scared 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a young man and any time they have close contact with a girl especially one they like, they will tend to have an erection. Yeah, he probably does but that doesn't me that you should go ahead and do it. It's all a part of nature and you do not have to act on it. Just enjoy your time being young, you will have plenty of time in life to really worry about that sort of thing.
2006-10-02 04:51:55 · answer #4 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This just means that he is turned on by your presence. It happens to them especially if you were dancing that close. Depending on how old you are, don't take it as you need to have sex with him. Yeah i am sure his body would like to have sex with you. But it is kind of out of his control, his body doing that. If you didnt ask him about it already, just let it go if you are not old enough for sex. I highly recomment not doing so til marriage.
2006-10-02 04:52:37 · answer #5 · answered by amy_lynne_26 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry that is normal. Sometimes boys can not control what happens down there. It may see strange or perverted but he was probably as uncomfortable and worried about what you would think when it happened. Don't worry about it. it is a natural response to being close to another person. It may happen even when you are not doing something like dancing.Enjoy each other and don't worry about it.
2006-10-02 04:54:31 · answer #6 · answered by pugaboo03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound very young, so please don't take this the wrong way. Men get errections in any type of situation, sometimes it's controllable and sometimes it just happens. It happened because you two were close and either thoughts or physical contact created the errection. My advice is to not get sexual with anyone until you are married. I know that many people will disagree with me.
2006-10-02 04:51:18 · answer #7 · answered by jogden2k 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not always an erection means i want to have sex. He was probably thinking or looking at the girl next to you.
2006-10-02 04:51:01 · answer #8 · answered by El Recio 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh!!!!
He can't help that erection. It doesn't mean his concious mind was thinking about sex. It's an automatic response to an intimate situation. I would take it as a compliment but it doesn't mean he is actively pursuing a sexual relationship with you.
2006-10-02 04:54:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he probably just got excited, completely norm... and he may want to have sex with you.... I mean that is pretty much what ment think about 100% of the time... *L* Just dont let him pressure you.... and everything will be okay.
2006-10-02 04:53:56 · answer #10 · answered by sexyghostgirl69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋