I got to know that his ex was a virgin before she was with him, when he told me this, I was a little bit unhappy, not really unhappy, i dunno, just felt uncomfortable. and the questions "if he minds i m not a virgin?", "does he love her more because she was virgin?".....what exactly guys are thinking?
2006-10-02 04:45:32 · 12 answers · asked by bebe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your boyfriend is that girl's ex for a reason. Stop worrying about his past relationship(s) and focus on making your own relationship strong.
2006-10-02 04:48:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I prefer experienced women, but not sure about other guys. We do keep a certain "thing" (I wouldn't call it love though) for the first girl we were with... but not the other way around. I'd say use it to your advantage. Guys pretty much assume that if a girl is at least 18, she's not a virgin. He's basically telling you to "be a woman", not a blow up doll and just lay there.
2006-10-02 11:52:09 · answer #2 · answered by tbayxxxv 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Being a virgin or not being a virgin does not mean very much to a man when it comes to love. Love is totally a different thing with them. Don't make so much out of it. He just told you that she was a virgin to let you know that he did not have sex with her. So there's no physical connection. If he loved her, he would be with her and not you.
2006-10-02 11:48:51 · answer #3 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Trust me.... have you ever slept with a virgin??? They are terrible in bed. He definitely doesn't mind that your not a virgin. As a matter of fact he is glad that your not. If not he should be. Virgins are a conquest for guys. Be glad he likes you for who you are and not because your just another notch in the bed post.
2006-10-02 11:51:52 · answer #4 · answered by Rob B 69 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I strongly doubt it if that's the case then why did they break up! If you feel like he won't love you the same because you're not a virgin then just ask him.
2006-10-02 11:51:37 · answer #5 · answered by liliw24 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Guys definitely consider virgins to be more of a challenge. They all wanna be the first to "de - flower" her.
2006-10-02 11:48:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Any guy who ONLY goes with virgins has some serious psychological problems.
That's just NOT reality.
2006-10-02 11:46:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think that it's like that.. He didn't tell you why they broke up right? Maybe he didn't want to be with her after a while or something really stupid but all that shoud matter is that he's with you now so... don't worry about it
2006-10-02 11:57:36 · answer #8 · answered by Foxxy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you sound like you around 13 or so, and not a virgin! hope you like being labeled...
2006-10-02 11:47:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
my none gf is left virgin
2006-10-02 11:47:49 · answer #10 · answered by Georgee 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋