I met him exactly a yr ago.I met him in a job interview and he was my interviewer!(interesting yeah?)I had a crush on him since then.We only see each other on msn.He never asked me out.We only occasionally bumped into each other at clubs.There was always this gal around him.Later on found that she's his gf!last week he told me his gf would be out of town and finally asked me out!I got all excited.we met for a few drinks......and we got drunk=.=and......spent a regrettable night together....shxt...ok,now the thing is,I was so into him just because I thought he's very loyal to his gf.he ever told me he doesnt do things that make his gf upset.So he tries not to let gals call him(including me).but now...
here comes the stupidest Q:what's in his mind???I must say that I really never have one-night stands.and I hate myself so much right now.I truly liked him and he let me down.I regret so much.and I think all these ruined our relationship or fdship or whatsoever that was.what can I do?
2006-10-02 04:42:28 · 10 answers · asked by Lisa C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I hate him so much.at the same time I dont want him to think Im an easy gal.like.......one of those gals out there that he has xxxxed......Im so sad.but I guess there's no way to like restore my image right? or you may think there's no point doing so as he's really a bastard?
2006-10-02 04:45:31 · update #1
I hate him so much.at the same time I dont want him to think Im an easy gal.like.......one of those gals out there that he has xxxxed......Im so sad.but I guess there's no way to like restore my image right? or you may think there's no point doing so as he's really a bastard?
2006-10-02 04:46:09 · update #2
I hate him so much.at the same time I dont want him to think Im an easy gal.like.......one of those gals out there that he has xxxxed......Im so sad.but I guess there's no way to like restore my image right? or you may think there's no point doing so as he's really a bastard?
2006-10-02 04:46:56 · update #3
I think he used you while his girlfriend was out of town. Sorry to say I think he is the one who made out. He sounds like a jerk sorry! How would you feel if you were the girlfriend? He needs to make a choice you or her you don't want to start a relationship based on mistrust that's what you have done. Sneaking around is unfair to everyone.
2006-10-02 04:48:56 · answer #1 · answered by pugaboo03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's proven that he's not worthy of your attention.
There's an old saying I've heard recently it goes. "If he'll cheat with you, then he'll cheat ON you".
Sure he never does things that upset his girlfriend, like let her CATCH him cheating. He went out with you while she's out of town because he doesn't expect to get caught.
You want to know what's in HIS mind. But more importantly, What's in YOUR mind?
I don't know how you thought that it would be OK to go out with a man in what was clearly a cheating scenario. Especially when you have already stated, that is against your principals.
I think you are right in your final assessment. He is NOT the guy you thought he was, & what good could come from carrying on any kind of relationship with him.
He obviously wants more than a friendship with you, & what future relationship would you have with him anyway. Either as his girl on the side, or as the new girlfriend that he cheats on.
Yeah you let your heart get ahead of your logical thinking & made a couple of mistakes. So as long as you learn from your mistakes you can forgive yourself. It's OK to forgive yourself, so now you can stop feeling guilty.
2006-10-02 12:05:40 · answer #2 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one mistake us females always make is not seeing the signs that men are not available to us and the truth is when a man is not emotionally available to you is when they are in relationships and when you worry about the connection you fail to see this when you see these signs it is best to recognize them before we get emotionally involved and when you can recognize these signs it will be better for you if you can avoid him do so lose his number dont call him tell not to call you and tell him he's involved with someone else so we can't be anything more than friends he has shown you even if he has feelings you that you and him can't be anything more because he isn't emotionally available to you and hope this helps and i hope you get someone who wants to be with you and you alone
2006-10-02 11:59:17 · answer #3 · answered by Rivelle W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You think he is worth the trouble you are in now? If not, at least pretend it doesn't bother you. When he sees that you are "using him" instead of the other way around, the situation maybe be different.
2006-10-02 12:04:43 · answer #4 · answered by Zooya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you was drunk so blame it on the liquor but if u knew he had a gf and he did some like that to her it is obvious he will do it to you
2006-10-02 11:51:59 · answer #5 · answered by Derrick J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just answered your own question.
2006-10-02 11:44:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a trashy skank.
Good luck to you gutterscum.
2006-10-02 11:45:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
That was too much to read
2006-10-02 11:43:29 · answer #8 · answered by (_)_)====(__)====D~~~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on
2006-10-02 11:47:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
S-L-U-T................
2006-10-02 11:52:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋