Facts...
In the beginning I wasn't serious about him because I wasn't looking for a relationship, and within the first two months of us being together I slept with one of his guy friends. We've been together for almost 6 months now and we established that we love each other. Recently I told him the truth about what I did. His reaction was okay, he asked why I didn't tell him sooner, said he felt like a fool cause he didn't see it, and then stated that we were going to make it through this and that he still loved me. But when I saw him he seemed distant and barely looked me in the eyes. What or how can I make this right again?
2006-10-02 04:39:53 · 25 answers · asked by Cathy 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He has t0o understand that you were not really serious in the beginning. It was just sex and you are still with him and told him about to be open and the show him that you really care for him.
2006-10-02 04:43:41 · answer #1 · answered by konala 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you went wrong my admitting the truth. If you weren't seeing each other exclusively you didn't have to tell him, have you also made the mistake of telling him who all and how many guys you've slept with? Don't do it, I'm telling you. It can only hurt. I have a strict don't ask, don't tell policy when it comes to relationships, I don't want to know what happened before me, I want to focus on the relationship now. Just give him some space and may be he'll come around. Good Luck.
2006-10-02 11:45:51 · answer #2 · answered by lost 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you lost his confidence in you and you may have broken his heart. He could be too nice a person to just drop you like a used rubber and wants to save the relationship because it the right thing to do, but he may not know how to go about it. If he cannot look into your eyes and have the same feelings as before, I thinks it over. Just be friends and maybe time will heal.
2006-10-02 11:47:02 · answer #3 · answered by dd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You call yourself F.A.I.T.H, yet you did this???
Well I think your bf is no longer looking @ u with the eyes as before.... he' s in total confusion... maybe he' s really in love with you but at the same time isn' t able to 4get what you did.
Ask yourself sincerely first.. Are you really in love with him?? Are you ready for a second chance?? If yes... just make all' s in your possibility to gain his FAITH...without hurting his feelings..... otherwise go your way and let him find true love.................!!!!!!
2006-10-02 11:49:11 · answer #4 · answered by Wild_Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have never told him in the first place. I did the very same thing and never told. The relationship worked out. People should just learn to keep their mouths shut about the past.
2006-10-02 11:42:51 · answer #5 · answered by peach49444 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
first things first your honesty will be rewarded second give him time it says a lot about his character if his first reaction is yall will make it thru it cuz lord knows i am not that big of a man i would just flip out lol but i am man enough to admit that lol anyway time and just rebuild the trust you violated
2006-10-02 18:01:05 · answer #6 · answered by OFFICER CAMPBELL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if hes ok with it shut up an leave it at that say your sorry tell him you love him it will never happen again an leave it be your lucky most guys would have told you to fucxx off so be thankful he forgave your stupidity
2006-10-02 11:43:20 · answer #7 · answered by misty w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THAT WAS SO WRONG OF TO DO THAT
IF YOU ARE REALLY SORRY GO AN TALK TO HIM ABOUT LOOK I KNOW I 'M SLEPT WITH YOUR FRIEND AN I WAS WRONG \FOR THAT I JUST QUICK FEELING AFTER A WHILE I STARTED TO LIKE YOU WASN'T IN ME IM'M REALLY SORRY AN I LOVE YOU I MEAN TO HURT BUT I FELT LIKE I WAS JUST LET OUT
2006-10-02 11:47:32 · answer #8 · answered by dillonamie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey why did u confess it
ok since u have confessed
u try to be on his side ,show him u r aligned with him
at least from now dont go to bed with ur guy's friends
if u r so interested go with someelse whom ur bf doesn't know
whatever it may be
be safe play safe take care of health beware of widespreading AIDS
2006-10-02 11:46:41 · answer #9 · answered by rockubabe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's broken hearted that not only would you ruin your relationship, but you also jeoperdized his with his friend. I think you've done enough damage and maybe its time to learn from this and move on.
2006-10-02 11:44:43 · answer #10 · answered by jerry4_fun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋