2006-10-02 04:29:52 · 7 answers · asked by edge 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you love him and want to be with him, then why not wait?
If you keep constant communication, and visit eachother as much as you can then it will or can work out.
But it is very hard, you both have to be willing to put alot of work into the relationship, and both have to stay faithful. Total trust is a must in any relationship, but especially a LDR because you are not right there by his/her side.
I am in a LDR for over a year, and for us it is working out. True, I am planning to move soon, but even if I cant do it right at this moment, I know I want to be with him and I will wait.
So its up to you, if you think this is a man you want to be with for a long time, then do it. If it is just going to waste your time, then move on.
2006-10-02 04:35:49 · answer #1 · answered by jam_psb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't bother. I'm at university and every couple i've met (except 1) has broken up during a long distance relationship. One girl said she loved her boyfriend and had been with him for 2 years. In her first year away she cheated on him 7 times then broke it off.
2006-10-02 11:32:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wants you to wait 4 years!?!??!?!
hell no
you can't do that to yourself.... 4 years of worrying if hes being faithful and 4 years of torture... ive lived thoruhg a long distance relationship and it is not fun
if you two are meant to be together it will happen. but for now i think its best and healthies for you to both see other people and when he graduates, THEN maybe you guys can get togehter but you can't put 4 years of your life on hold for one guy, who you odnt even know if hes the one
2006-10-02 11:32:56 · answer #3 · answered by letsx3dance 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on.. 4 years is long enough for u to wait..there are lots of things that can happen within 4 years....you can probably meet a wonderful person that would be your partner in a lifetime..
2006-10-02 14:00:53 · answer #4 · answered by weakest Link! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ldr rarely ever work out there are too many people out in the world so the chances oof either finding some one else is greater than staying together
2006-10-02 11:37:29 · answer #5 · answered by raudidave 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really love him and he really loves you and yall think it is worth the wait i say wait on him especially if he is a good man cuz gurl they are hard to find. stick with him and dont let nobody tell you other wise
2006-10-02 11:32:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Krazy........ Did he mention he would wait for you? I doubt it.
2006-10-02 11:31:41 · answer #7 · answered by Krazykraut 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋