My parents "are" getting a divorce but I love them together.So I am asking Can parents that are getting a divorce get back together?
2006-10-02 03:56:38 · 28 answers · asked by sexylala099 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
It's pretty rare, but it happens. My parents almost got back together, but they didn't - my Dad got remaried.
Anyway, again, it happens. Some people get divorced, remary, then get divorced again (look at Eminem - prime example).
Good luck!
2006-10-02 03:58:34 · answer #1 · answered by gatesfam@swbell.net 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that today, people are too quick to get divorces. Sometimes the couple realizes that they should actually be together but most of the time divorces stay and each person finds someone else that they can relate better to. People sometimes grow apart and end up with nothing in common after many years of marriage and it's sad that most marriages end in divorce, especially if there are children involved. My parents have been divorced for about 7 years and they have a better relationship now than they ever did when they were married. I wish you didn't have to go through this because it is very hard but i wish you good luck and just make sure you have good friends to lean on during this hard time in your life!
2006-10-02 04:01:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hear you. But you broken her trust. Trust is a big thing in marriage, she must feel awful, that how easily you managed it without once thinking how hurt she would be if she found out. What can happen to your marriage? Which in her eyes you did not think twice about. It's not easy to forgive and forget. I mean, your a man in the military, so how would you feel if roles were reversed and she played away whilst your at work? Seriously would it hurt you, that you were faithful and she had a one night stand? You both need counselling and I don't think seeing the Sex Counsellor would sort it,as you state it was a one off, so if it was a one off why would you need to see a sex counsellor as it's a one time event. I would recommend you both to visit a marriage counsellor, to sit and talk about why you did what you did, and how are you both moving forward from this. How you can build her trust back up. Does it not hurt you that you hurt her? she feels hard done by,so unfortunately you will have to start from scratch. My concern is, that you are not prepared to do so, as you feel that you have apologised enough already, which means that you do not have remorse for your actions. If that is the case, then you must do what is right and move on. No matter how hard you will try, you will never be able to keep to your word, and some thing or another will trigger, before you know it your marriage will be shattered. Good luck in what ever you decide, but only you can change it, be true to yourself.
2016-03-27 02:04:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course they could get back together, but normally it doesn't work that way. In most, not all, divorce cases some kind of trust has been broken.
One thing that is hard to understand is that your parents still love you, but can't stand each other. The worst part for you is watching your family getting ripped apart and there is nothing you can do.
The only wisdom I can give you in this matter is to talk to someone you can trust, and once you collect your thoughts talk to your parents about your feelings.
Good luck
2006-10-02 04:12:34 · answer #4 · answered by tcmoosey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure they can. But what are the reasons for their divorce? Are you sure that you would want them to be together if they are so unhappy with each other?
Hang in there! Even though they are divorcing, you will still have them as parents. I know it must be very hard on you.
2006-10-02 04:00:31 · answer #5 · answered by nnett64 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is possible, but not likely. They divorced for their own reasons and I am sure they tried to work things out before making that decision.
Take comfort in the fact that they will both be your parents for the rest of their lives. They also may become good friends even though they didn't make it in the marriage. Talk to your parents about your concerns and keep communication open to both of them.
I recommend counseling to get you through this time. Good luck.
2006-10-02 04:02:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the fantasy of almost every child whose parents are divorcing. Divorced people do occasionally get back together. But every child in your situation wants this, and very, very few get it. Pray for what you want, but also for the strength to accept whatever happens. And I am really sorry your parents decided to do this.
2006-10-02 04:00:47 · answer #7 · answered by z 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to understand that you may love them together but they do not. Divorce is not the end of the world, they still love you. It is not your fault so you can do nothing to get them back together.
Let your parents move on with their lives, let them be happy.
2006-10-02 03:58:54 · answer #8 · answered by Moosha 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe that any marriage can be saved. My best advice for couples headed for a divorce is this. Do not rush into it. There is no hurry. I d advise take a " time-out " from each other for one year,,,then sit down and see if a divorce is still wanted.
2006-10-02 04:02:06 · answer #9 · answered by Susan K 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure they can and lots of times do. But don't hold your breath as they are doing what they think is best for them at present. Just be supportive of each of your parents and let them know how much they mean to you and that you still love them both.
2006-10-02 03:59:21 · answer #10 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋