Is is wrong?

I dont think it's wrong to have sex before marriage. As long as both partners are of the legal age. Yes it's a sin, but in the world we live in today, most people dont do much that isn't.

If you both love one another, and are both comfortable with this next step in your relationship. Then go for you. It's a wonderful thing, if shared with someone you love.

2006-10-02 03:54:25 · answer #1 · answered by rebecwi3 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋

That depends on your idea of what right and wrong is. According to the bible, sex before marriage is wrong. But I personally wouldn't marry someone I haven't been with sexually. My primary reason is sexual compatibility. Sex is a HUGE part of marriage. People deny this but it is true. I see people cheating on their spouses in sexual situations- not platonic ones. If you have a huge arousal appetite, someone who doesn't will not fit with you sexually. Even if you're not yet having sex, you can determine this about yourself by how much you masturbate. Suppose you like oral sex but your mate has issues with it? What about those times you want sex but your mate doesn't? It helps when you have someone who wants it as much as you do or as little as you do- just so long as you two are on the same accord.

2006-10-02 04:04:19 · answer #2 · answered by Honey 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋

Galations 5: 19-21
19 But the works of the flesh are manifest, which are these; Adultery, fornication*,uncleanness, lasciviousness,
20 Idolatry, witchcraft, hatred, variance, emulations, wrath, strife, seditions, heresies,
21 Envyings, murders, drunkenness, revellings, and such like: of the which I tell you before, as I have also told you in time past, that they which do such things shall not inherit the kingdom of God.

*fornication-4202-porneia-harlotry( includ.adultery and incest)fig. idoltry:fornication.
it is my understanding that includes sex before marriage, also.

2006-10-02 04:07:46 · answer #3 · answered by KaeMae 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋

Absolutely not... Sex should be enjoyed by consenting adults any time they wish. Marriage has nothing to do with sex.

2006-10-02 03:55:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋

Based on many Protestant religions, yes.
Based on my opinion of human nature, no.
Is it better to wait? Yep.

Theory: The one you choose to marry can get any gift from anyone else. He can buy or work for anything he wants. And you may be able to give him anything that anyone else can give him. But NoOne Else can give him (or her) the gift you can as being able to share your body with that person for the first time.

2006-10-02 04:04:19 · answer #5 · answered by Greywolf 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋

You will have to define everything from wrong to marriage. Too many variables exist for a coherent answer.

2006-10-02 03:58:43 · answer #6 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋

if you plan to get married to that person and yall are engaged then ne but if its just a got to do it for the heck of it yes it is wrong cuz you have to stay pure for your one true love

2006-10-02 03:54:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋

For most people it isn't, but I feel it is best to wait. It shows that there is love firmly established as well as commitment for each other if you wait. If it is quick thrill you are after that is different, but if want to have a firm relationship it is best to wait.

2006-10-02 03:54:43 · answer #8 · answered by Paka 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋

Depends who you answer to? If you follow a Christian belief and believe the Bible is our surce for right and wrong, then yes, "fornication" is wrong.

If you think you can do what you want and live how you want, then no do as you please.

2006-10-02 03:55:06 · answer #9 · answered by HomePapa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋

Only you can answer that? How old are you again if you don't know the answer to this question then you are still to young to have sex.

2006-10-02 03:54:10 · answer #10 · answered by rahlyd swamp muffin 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋

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