I recently started dating this guy. There are no titles quite yet but we got to know each other b/4 we went out which I think resulted in a stronger connection, but the bottom line is we're still in the "getting to know each other stage" from a romantic view. Sat night we were up really late and up early sun but we had made plans to hang out later. So he calls me last night to tell me that he's so exhausted. I tell him that I could stop by his house if he wants for a little bit since I had to be up early this morning but if he wanted to just go to bed that was ok too. I did end up going over there cuz I really wanted to see him and yeah, he was dragging a$$ a little. So we made plans that he would come over 2nite and watch monday night football. I called him a little bit ago, trying to be cute w/ a monday morning, "good morning" call at work. He seemed genuinely happy to hear from me but when I brought up the game said he might have a change of plans and do guys night instead?
2006-10-02 03:46:02 · 3 answers · asked by Kyppa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It just seems that in this "initial" phases of a budding relationship you put on your "A" game to impress the person and do whatever you can to hang out w/them. But I could just be getting too cautious too soon b/c i've had so many shitty relationships and this guys seems so much different.
2006-10-02 03:47:35 · update #1
Relax! He just spent basically the whole weekend with you and now he wants to spend a little time with the guys watching the game. Don't make a big deal about it. If you do you will come across as needy and too high maintenance.
2006-10-02 03:51:11 · answer #1 · answered by lucydesi1940 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK think about this for a minute. Would you rather have someone putting on their "A game" to impress you, or being honest with you, and actinglike the real them from the beginning? You obviously see alot of each other and talk often, he is usually happy to spend time with you. I would not worry about him being too tired one night. We all have days were a nap sounds like the best thing on earth. And as far as a "guys night" let him have it, his friends still belong in his life.
2006-10-02 10:55:22 · answer #2 · answered by tigweldkat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's okay for you to be cautious. In your explanation I see reason for caution. That will give you the time to find out what type of person he really is, apart from the one you have always known. Slow down your pace before it ends you up in disaster but don't rule him out. There will always be those times when he will need to be with his friends and that does not mean he takes your relationship with him lightly. Maybe that time he will be telling them how good you are.
2006-10-02 10:53:47 · answer #3 · answered by kombo6m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋