all what i see in this world is unfairness and i feel that my life has been filled with sadness , loneliness and depression. I ask you , how can i accept that life is unfair and still find a reason to believe in God?
2006-10-02 03:38:31 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Oh what u need to do is realize and know that even if you are going through all thsi sadness and trouble, that God sees that you are delaing with that and that He may, (if you are tryin to seek Him) will try to help you through life. God wants you to kopw that this is just the world and you may have alot of troubles but you if you ahve lived your life holy adn have had a good realtionship with God, and treted Him like your everything, hten when u die, u will be in a better place.
Thats what i do. I know i am dtill in work with my journey on being with God but when i die, i can know that all thsi trouble will go away and that i won't ahve to worry about sadness dna killing and all evil beiong in Heaven.
2006-10-02 03:44:06 · answer #1 · answered by Mia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you look at our lives compared with eternity, our life is so short it barely makes a ripple. I see this life as a test, and yes, many times its unfair and sad, but if you handle your life with dignity and grace, have love and compassion for others, there will be eternal rewards. You'll look back on all this and wonder what all the fuss was about.
2006-10-02 10:45:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You make your own destiny. Study the concept of free will
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Freewill
Your belief in God should not be shaken because of your unfortunate circumstances. Did someone promise you God would give you a fulfilled, happy life? If so, where do I get in line.
Who told you that life was fair? Life is what you make of it.
Act to change your lot in life. Go out and do something you enjoy.
Otherwise you doom yourself to an unhappy existance.
Fate is not certain.
2006-10-02 10:43:46 · answer #3 · answered by crazyotto65 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You must search your life and realize that there is goodness and brightness there. We were never promised an easy live dear friend. Anything worth doing takes hard work and patience. One must be willing to let go of the "why me" attitude and accept the "Why not me" one in it's place. It is hard but if I can do it then anyone can as I am not a very strong person.
Praying for you,
Debra
2006-10-02 10:42:16 · answer #4 · answered by Debra M. Wishing Peace To All 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Read the life of Jesus It was not fair for him also,even as a child people were out to kill him! Yes this life is unfair to most but i look for the one to come as Jesus promised to make it fair. i pray a lot and it helps me.
2006-10-02 10:51:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who ever said life would be fair? Was it fair to Jesus? Did He get special treatment, when He's God in the flesh? The word of God says "All things work together for good to them who love God, to them who are called according to His purpose" Romans 8:28. I was molested as a child, treated unfairly growing up, was poor, and overcome all kinds of diversities. None of that matters. Because I know God has a purpose and a plan for me. I know that it's Satan's job to distract me and try to get me off course. He did for a while, by coming in different forms, but now that I have a relationship with God, I have a better understanding. We're not suppose to think it strange that we have divers trails and temptations. But we are to welcome them, see them as stepping stones in our faith, and look to God for all things. I wish you well.
2006-10-02 10:49:03 · answer #6 · answered by Gail R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry your life sucks. Mine doesn't so just because you haven't found a way to cope with everyday life doesn't mean there isn't a higher power. Man's decisions and personal choices is why life sucks not the non-existence of God.
2006-10-02 10:41:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Most of those things you mention stem from Not following God.
God gives us the tools we need to survive. Although times can get tough, God is always with us.
Sometimes we need to search out God.
Peace, Good Luck, and God bless you!
2006-10-02 10:42:27 · answer #8 · answered by C 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
See your hardship as fulfilling God's purpose. He doesn't want anyone to suffer but he wants every soul to grow closer to him and unfortunately pain and hardship is one of the best means to grow as a person. I'm in almost permanent physical pain but I'm inured to it, in fact I even find it grimly amusing. Never give in. Use suffering as the means for personal growth.
2006-10-02 10:42:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What has the GOD to do with the fairness of life?
The God made everything PERFECT-- then gave us FREE
WILL--WE SCREWED IT UP!
Live with it-- every one else does.
Study >>http://www.toughlove.faithweb.com/
If you want something to do-- and be Saved and Happy as well.
2006-10-02 10:53:55 · answer #10 · answered by whynotaskdon 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋