I heard that it's okay to marry your first cousin. I saw somewhere that Rudolph Guilini's first wife was his first cousin.
2006-10-02 03:34:30 · 18 answers · asked by what the hell is a buckeye? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
However you feel is however you feel. It's your actions that matter. For this situation, I'd recommend not acting on your feelings. The younger you are, the harder it is going to be. But just ignore it if you can. You'll grow out of it. You might always find your cousin attractive, but it's what you do or don't do about it that defines you.
2006-10-02 04:15:31 · answer #1 · answered by amdstreit 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's normal for children to have crushes on a family member. It is how we develope and grow. You will later find that when you are older and dating that you tend to be attracted to people like your oppisite sex parent, sibling or family member (female for boy & male for a girl). The old saying about "marrying a man like my dear old dad" is true.
Just do not act on the crush. Incest is wrong no matter how you look at it.
2006-10-02 11:21:00 · answer #2 · answered by mommakaye 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hehe...got some people used to ask me this question but im not soooo sure coz some say ok some say not..
but look my cousin yappp first cousin they marry to each other and the kids come out just fine...nothing damages ..
so for me i think it should be ok to marry ur 1st cousin why not ... if u both love each other thats mroe then enough right ??
2006-10-02 10:39:23 · answer #3 · answered by Asha 1 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Ummmm - ILLEGAL and IMMORAL. You can not date your first cousin. If for no other reason, think of what your grandmother would say! Besides, if you fall in love and have babies, they have a big chance of having birth defects. No dear, that's called incest. How about being friends and family and just leaving it at that!
2006-10-02 10:37:56 · answer #4 · answered by redpaynt 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Um... really find someone that you can date but not your first cousin! Move on and don't reciprocate his feeling, sounds harsh but you have no idea what your up to.
2006-10-02 10:46:53 · answer #5 · answered by Dawn Treader 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i think that you should leave it just a crush what will your family think about you dating your cousin,if you don't care about what they would say then go for it but if you do then just let it be just that a crush
2006-10-02 10:38:09 · answer #6 · answered by nclgivens 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Good grief! How small of a town do you live in to have to date your first cousin?
2006-10-02 10:36:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 2⤋
It was his second or third cousin, not his first cousin.
A first cousin is just one step away from being your brother or sister, and that is just plain gross.
2006-10-02 10:51:33 · answer #8 · answered by BoomChikkaBoom 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
That is not a good thing to be having a crush on any family member of your own.That is kinda sick.Have a crush on someone that is not your family member.
2006-10-02 10:40:45 · answer #9 · answered by Indie 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
you need to go to church and ask for God's help cause you straight nasty. There are too men out there to be attracted to a family member. EW! EW! EW!
Your Nasty! Rotten! EW! Your should be ashamed just typing that...nasty! Shameless, desperate nasty, girl!
2006-10-02 10:37:34 · answer #10 · answered by Melia 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋