Why do Mothers change I mean the change of the way that a Mother loves her kids. Now I know that a real mother loves her family with not only words but with everything that she has. She would die for her kids am I wrong, I hope not it is as this I just got my boy back from his mother, and it is not good. My poor son I, feel so bad that he has the mother that I gave him. If I would have know that she would have been this way, I would of never had kids with her let me tell you guys some of the things that he told me last night.and, you can read more of the things on my 360 later on to day with full details on why I am not with this Pig. and the steps that I now have to take. He had to go throw the pain of her boyfriend punching him in the chest, because he did not eat. She told him that it was his fault, then she would meet more men on line. Move them to their house, he would have to hear her having sex with them he is 11YRS old. she is online all day and night she is G3NUIINE_EYE_CANDY
2006-10-02 03:10:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Call Child Protective Services and have your son removed from that environment.
It is your responsibility to see that your son is raised in a healthy environment.
Take sole custody of him. Don't return him to that environment. She will probably not bother to go to court to fight you.
Make a police complaint about the abuse your son has suffered at the hands of this boyfriend.
Lord get off this computer and save your son from this nightmare. Be his hero. Don't sacrifice him any longer.
You are just as irresponsible as you ex if you allow this to happen.
2006-10-02 03:46:19 · answer #1 · answered by easinclair 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First report this to your local CPS (child protective services) Second contact an attorney and see about having the visitations resended or at least changed to supervised visitation only.
Ask about what you can do to deny contact with her untill this is resolved.
I was a very lost person years ago and so timid and afraid that I did not report a man who slapped my child in the face. I live with that guilt everyday. I did move out and stayed away from this person from then on, but I still to this day, 20 odd years later, regret not cutting his throat. It only happened one time but the guilt will be with me forever.One time was too many.
I know I was a lousy person for not reporting it, I did learn my lesson and I did become a better mom . My child doesn't hold it against me and has even told me he understands I had a bad start but I turned into a great Mom. That is really all that counts.
2006-10-02 03:47:30 · answer #2 · answered by mommakaye 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the police and get him arrested for battery to a child!! Then Dept of Children and Family Services will be notified by police. She is as much to blame as the man that did this to your son, she allowed it. You can get an order of protection for you son too, be it the guy that punched him or your ex. You have to act now before it is too late. Our children are in our care to take care of them and to show them that you will never allow anyone to harm them!!! Let your son know that from here on out you will protect him and he will NEVER have to go through any abuse at the hands of your ex or her boyfriends!!!! Protect him NOW!!!
2006-10-02 03:47:17 · answer #3 · answered by nnett64 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am new at this parenting thing, 11 week old baby. But my advice would be to 1. report this woman and man to the police, a state agency 2. DO NOT let your child go with his mother. She is a selfish person who does not love anyone but herself.
2006-10-02 03:38:11 · answer #4 · answered by carriemehome25 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she's allowing others to abuse your child you can't let it continue. You need to talk to the police or a lawyer or someone who can help you with this situation. She sounds as though she's living the life she wants to lead and not thinking of your son at all. Not all mothers are like this.
2006-10-02 03:50:46 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
duuude...please report this..I think if you dont report this..YOU are being the "bad" dad.
please protect your child. No telling what else is happening to your kids..or what else might happen.
This lady is putting the men in her life before your kids..then you can be sure she doesn't have good judgement and....
these men probably know it...I hate to say it but..what do you think is on their mind knowing that they are getting together with a mom with kids...
whether you believe in prayer or not...please pray for you kids too..for GOD to put a hedge of protection around them also.
I am so tired of hearing about these monsters harming these kids.
please record your son with a video cam or digital video cam talking of what goes on to him and siblings.
KEEP your kids safe...It is every parents duty and purpose.
Mother & Father alike.
TOTALLY AGREe with elaine s & nnett64..
DO SOMETHING NOW.feel bad for yourself later protect him now!
not trying to bash you but you will feel worse if something happens to your son that you should've done something to stop.
pray for strength , but GOD blesses ACTION
Best wishes
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2006-10-02 03:24:03 · answer #6 · answered by sHiNe 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
oh sh** !!!! Put a stop to this now!!!!I have 2 very special boys and it would be a cold day in he** when some one would touch one of my children or they would ever hear me having sex..I say to report this to child welfare and the courts and then also get it to where she can not be alone with him again for a long time....I am so sorry to hear that you and your son is going thru such a terrible thing but I hope and pray you will be father enough to do something about it....NOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! TODAY!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-02 03:37:39 · answer #7 · answered by browneye_ky_girl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What's your question? "Why do mothers change?" She was probably like this the whole time but you didn't notice.
2006-10-02 03:13:42 · answer #8 · answered by porkchop 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋