ok shes amazing and 19 problem yes im 16 and it has to be a secret because she a youth leader and im a youth. her dad will like freakout. i want 2 stay with her but im scared of hurting her family.
2006-10-02 02:57:31 · 13 answers · asked by nate 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
19 to 16 is not that much of a diffrence. You like her so whats the problem, just stay with her.
2006-10-02 03:01:07 · answer #1 · answered by dream_harts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ah yeah, it could be a problem. Personally I am a PK myself.
Righ now there is a huge difference between the ages of 19 and 16.. Ten years from now at ages 26 a nd 29 your age difference won't matter.
SEcrets often hurt people. I can't tell you what to do, just be cautious. Your parents might not mind the two of you taking it slow until a couple of years when your age difference isn't much.
Pray about it........thats the best way to come to peace with that.
A nd I really think she is way too close in age to be working in the youth department
2006-10-02 10:02:53 · answer #2 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to back off.....Also , since she is a youth leader she should know better than to mess around with one of the youth in her group.
2006-10-02 10:01:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK so there is an age difference so what. Do you think you have a future, if so then when are you 17 try and wait till then to make it public, but if there is no future then end it ASAP
2006-10-02 10:03:43 · answer #4 · answered by spunkster12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll eventually get caught. Everyone usually does. If her family doesn't want you to "date", will they allow you to hang out at their house, etc.? If you really like her, you'll make adjustments to being with her, until her family accepts it. You may feel that it's not fair - but life rarely is - if she cares for you, and you for her, this can work out - but maybe not as quickly as you'd like. Be upfront about your relationship. Honesty goes a long way with parents.
2006-10-02 10:02:31 · answer #5 · answered by sassybree1979 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey i am 19 years old and my bf just turned 17 ok dont worry about it they will not ahte you a preacher should know that god has some one in mind for every one and that you just might be the one he has in mind for her
2006-10-02 10:44:21 · answer #6 · answered by chica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, well if you two are smart about it and be discreet, you should be fine. No public displays of affection or telling anybody about it
2006-10-02 10:02:34 · answer #7 · answered by roccoq 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not comfortable it will start to show sooner or later. SO I think you should let her know and call it quits.
P.S. It's always the quiet ones.....
2006-10-02 10:00:32 · answer #8 · answered by jaye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then go with what you feel is the right thing to do sweetie!
2006-10-02 10:03:07 · answer #9 · answered by liliw24 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her set the rules.
you should just go along for the ride.
2006-10-02 10:04:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋