I caught her cheating and yet she is denying it. Why does she deny it? What do you think I should do? I am really hurt that she would do that to me.
2006-10-02 02:53:38 · 19 answers · asked by Kevin 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
move on. there are many fishes in the sea.
2006-10-02 02:59:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear this. You should make the decision to leave her now. That's one thing I won't bother to discuss or talk about. If someone cheats, they're done. There's no excuses, no second chances. One strike and they're out.
For me, tho I say that because I know how to have a healthy relationship with someone. I'm not selfish, I don't hold back in the sack, I'm very giving, responsible, loving and affectionate, and I'm not lazy. In other words I try to do the right things to make someone happy, so if they go and cheat, then it's some short-circuit in their brain that's the problem, but even if it wasn't, I'd still call it quits. You can do whatever you wish, but I'd never feel like I could trust them again. Their word would no longer be worth anything, I'd be suspicious, and that's not the kind of person I am, or a way I'd want to live, and more than likely, whatever it was in them, or the relationship that caused them to cheat probably would not be fixed to where they wouldn't feel that same compulsion again.
So, if I were you, I wouldn't waste any time with this person. They showed you what they are about, and what they are made of. There is no excuse for cheating......none, and don't let this person try and tell you it was a 'mistake'.
Again, I'm sorry you had to go thru this. It's a terrible thing to do to someone......cheating. Women are just as guilty of it as the guys are unfortunately. You will be much better off letting this person go, healing, moving on and then finding someone else that *will* actually treat you with respect and be worth your trust, and event hat will be difficult for you, but you need to learn to trust again.
Good luck to you.....there are good people out there somewhere.
2006-10-02 03:09:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating means there is something wrong in the realtionship and someone else is providing the necessary ingredient. Denying that it happened is done so that the person does not have to tell you directly and up front that you are not meeting that "need". If you were married , I would say, pressure the person for the answers, but you are not married to this girl. I would advise you to leave this girl. No one wants to be with someone who is not mature enough to answers questions directly about their behaviour.Find a better person and enjoy the characteristics of that person and be grateful you did not invest a lifetime with a person who would hurt your emotions and your life.
Best of luck.
2006-10-02 03:03:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
erm if you actually caught her cheating why is she trying to deny it!!?
Leave her!! Pure and simple - she obviously cheated on you coz she doesnt appreciate you and she may not be satisfied - or else shes just a sl*t.
Get away from her - I know it'll be hard - but you're hurting anyway so its for the best xx
2006-10-02 02:55:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She denies it because if she believes it's not true, to her it isn't. Honestly there is no point in trying to work it out with her, because once a cheater always a cheater. Trust me i've been there done that. I was told she just wanted to be friends with her ex again, she didn't want any bad feeling between them and that led to them sleeping with eachother. But it's ok once she was kicked to the curb the other ladies came rolling in. And thanks to her i found the love of my life.
2006-10-02 02:58:40 · answer #5 · answered by mbsparks11@verizon.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't take that because you are better than that. I f she denies it that makes her lower then what she already is! what i think is that you should dump her and find some one new that wont cheat on you! that way your heart will hill. If you stay with her that will kill your heart worse than if you break up with her!
2006-10-02 03:07:07 · answer #6 · answered by horsegirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is one of the worst things you can do to your partner. There's no question about waht you should do: KICK HER LYING A** to the curb. Once they cheat, they will cheata AGAIN. I Been throught that and I finally got out of it. FIrst he denied, then he finally admitted it. I gave him way too many chances, and he continued. leave her. someone that lies to u and cheat, does not truly luv you. they are selfish
2006-10-02 02:56:51 · answer #7 · answered by A_Latina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take my word on this....Once a cheater always a cheater. Women cheat for different reasons it is usually a power thing. Get out now before it gets worse.
2006-10-02 04:29:53 · answer #8 · answered by redheadhoney572 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you caught her red handed. and still denying it. move on. find a new girl. you deserve better. liers don't tell the truth. so dump her and never give her a chance.
2006-10-02 02:59:22 · answer #9 · answered by sure_whatever_29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont be hurt ( well at least not any more ) Have respect for your self- ( or she wont ) walk away from this relationship if you are being hurt in it. You are supposed to be happy- find something that makes you happy.
2006-10-02 02:56:20 · answer #10 · answered by tbaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should get rid of her because she knows you caught her and she still denying it so if you keep her around she'll do it again because if they can get away with it once they will do it again
2006-10-02 02:57:03 · answer #11 · answered by hottie25p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋