I was told that guys red flags go off when a girl cries in front of them or shows emotion. I was also told that guys will run the other direction if a girl over reacts to a situation and freaks out. This situation kinda happened to me. I am head over heals in love with a guy at my church and I have been kinda bideing my time waiting for him to be ready to date again. Well we went down to Cali together, a 14 hour trip by the way, and I over reacted and assumed he had done something that he had not. It hurt him that I accused him of it and despite the fact that he was willing to talk it out at the time, I held onto it and let it get bigger until three days later I litterally BLEW up at him. I used every bad word in the book and it wasn't pretty. I told him today that I was SOOO sorry and that I was just under ALOT of stress this past week but I am not sure he cares.. Do you think I freaked him out? Do you think that theres even a chance for us to be together in the future?
2006-10-02 02:46:58 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Only weak men run after one blow-up. If he doesn't want to be with you - don't be sad, you have just eliminated a weakling.
You can just try to make him see that you are not always like this. Honestly, every person blow up now and then. He who understands that will be more of a keeper.
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2016-10-15 10:38:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will be rocky because you took a little something and twisted it into something else.
You were given an opportunity to explain yourself, but chose not to take it, waiting until you could really lash out at him.
A trust has been broken and i do not know if he will let you back in, as he is concerned of another assault like that.
i would just cool it for awhile and try again later
2006-10-02 02:51:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well....you definitely hurt him. Is there a chance you might get together? Depends...on the guy....me personally I believe in giving someone a 2nd chance for most horrible things a person does. But not everyone feels that way...however if he really did truly love you...then your chances are pretty good. Hope things work out for you..Good Luck!
2006-10-02 02:50:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was in a relationship like that, and it wasn't pretty! I tried to be understanding about the whole thing, but in the end, she was just emotionally unstable (too much bagage). I hate to put it that way, but it's true.
I wouldn't say that red flags go off, just be truthful to yourself. If you are the type whose insecure when not in a relationship, then I would recommend that you deal with that first and not bringing that in a relationship.
Open up to him (not making any excuses) and tell him how you feel- who knows? Maybe it was that time of the month.
Good luck!
2006-10-02 02:57:02 · answer #5 · answered by chilean_sea_ass 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What you have . . . is a failure . . . . . to communicate
First of all, no one likes to be accused of something they didnt do. When you " hear" things, check them out from other sources. There are people out there who would like nothing more than to see you fight and possible take your " hope to be" man. A person who controls their emotions will go a long way in life.
Guys dont run the other way, hey, my GF cries, tears of joy, tears of sadness, but never tears of sorrow from a fight. I dont believe in fighting so, we dont do it.
Always double check your suspicions or rumors that your told. When you assume something, spell it out " you make an A$$ our of U and ME"
2006-10-02 02:51:32 · answer #6 · answered by bigmikejones 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not true. And u did say you where sorry so all you can do now is go and talk to him and see what he says if he cant forgive you he isn`t worth it, just try and make up and tell him u don`t always do this otherwise he might think you get like this all the time and he will not want to date u.
2006-10-02 02:52:37 · answer #7 · answered by dragonredjoburg 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't see you two being together. The reason? He really didn't even know you and you reacted the way you did. How will your reaction be if you are dating??
2006-10-02 02:53:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
All I have to say is that if he gives you another chance,,,don't blow it this time...Stop and think before you blow your stack. Also get the facts before you sya things that can never be taken back...
2006-10-02 02:50:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are going to need to do some major work. I don't know if anything is possible.
2006-10-05 06:56:28 · answer #10 · answered by Subjective philosophy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋