What does it mean when guys tell a girl that she is beautiful, smart, great personality,that the girls is what dreams are made of. On top of that they claim they wanted to ask her out but never do.At the same time ask for her phone number yet never calls. What is really going on in the man's brain???
2006-10-02 02:42:27 · 29 answers · asked by liipl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The men telling me this are people who know me well enough and have been around me minimum a year
2006-10-02 02:48:10 · update #1
scared
2006-10-02 02:43:18 · answer #1 · answered by Jon 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he might be wanting to get into your pants, either that or he is a really shy guy. Some guys will say all guys want is sex and that is not true. He might be nervous because you are so pretty and smart. You could try asking him out and take the pressure off of him for a while. Plus, it doesn't have to be a real date, you can go out in a group or do something that isn't expensive, but is fun.
2006-10-02 02:49:23 · answer #2 · answered by Sexy Love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is scared of rejection. He means everything that he's said to you its just that he doesn't think that somebody as beautiful as you will say yes to him if he asked you out. He hasn't built up enough confinedence yet to ask you. That's all if you really like this guy then take the first step and ask him out or let him know that you are interested in him as well. This will break the ice with him a lot sooner.
2006-10-02 02:47:17 · answer #3 · answered by The Plague 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I knew a guy like this, the only difference is that I'd known him since the 8th grade, and we were in out late twenties when he started making these noises. Let me give you my perspective:
After the millionth profession of love and adoration I was like "Enough already! Either you want to be with me or you don't" Unlike your guy, mine continued to call with his professions of undying love and affection. I used to stay up at night wondering what he meant, when something was going to happen, how patient I was going to be...
...and one day I just got irritated. I stopped trying to figure him out, I stopped thinking about the possibilities and started dealing with the realities. I stopped trying to figure out what was going on to his head. The next time he called I told him he either needed to make a move and act on his feelings or stop call my a**. He kept calling, but took no action, and I finally started ingoring his calls. He'd inquire with my mom, and I think nearly crapped his pants when he found out I'd gotten married.
Bottom line: Women spend a lot of time trying to figure men out when there's nothing to figure out. If you're not getting what you need from the "relationship," stop pondering over something you'll probably never get an answer.
At the end of the day, it doesn't really matter what it means when a guy says__________, especially if their actions don't back it up.
2006-10-02 03:00:36 · answer #4 · answered by Le_Roche 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys just cant handle a good thing!my guy tells me im everything a guy could want im smart sexy good in bed a great cook,yet im not fat even after 6 kids,good house keeper i mean the list goes on,he even calls me Martha Stewart he tells me that im perfect for him yet hes attracted to scanks,hood-rats,i mean this guy is a VP.at a very reputable bank,go figure right.sometimes i dont think they even know what they want,or there afraid of the one, you know the one that's going to tame them.GOOD LUCK!! P.S if you really want him then let it be known but dont it in a subtle way or else he might bolt
2006-10-02 02:52:45 · answer #5 · answered by my space 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely Nothing!!!! Guys have lines they use to get numbers. Then never use the numbers they get. Don't fall for it. But here is a line you can use the next time you give a number out. When a guy ask for you number, say "Now, I'm not giving you this for you to throw it away or not to use. If I'm giving it to you, then you better use it" It worked for me when I was dating. It worked on my husband. LOL
2006-10-02 02:46:19 · answer #6 · answered by ga_gyrl91 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me he is trying to get with "You" except he's not putting enough effort in to it. If you really want to be with him, I would tell him, what you just asked us. "Whats the deal, do you or don't you want to date, if not why not call or ask me out"
Either he wants s*x only, or is just too coward to step up to the plate. I wouldn't wait forever....About men, they all have very weird ways of showing whats really on their minds, that's why most women work on mind reading, just for them...Good luck and take care!
2006-10-02 02:49:03 · answer #7 · answered by me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He really wants s.. guy's will say anything to get you in the sack and then find someone else who is more likely to be a beater chance. Sorry to you if you are a young kid but I am just telling you the way it is.
2006-10-02 02:47:38 · answer #8 · answered by Laura S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex. He wants to get into your pants - but when you just give him your phone number, he never calls because he figures you're not going to let him anyway.
Stay away from guys who say that stuff when they first meet you, or on first dates - they only want one thing.
2006-10-02 02:46:00 · answer #9 · answered by gatesfam@swbell.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he is scared or he is already got another girl some where else. If thats not the case then make the first move.
2006-10-02 02:46:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means maybe you are a threat, every guy will like you and he doesn't want to be ina competition. High maintenance guys doesn't like that. Or maybe the guys that you met is not available anymore, so just incase. Or the guys just chicken out.
2006-10-02 02:48:49 · answer #11 · answered by sure_whatever_29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋